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3 C’s to stop in your marriage to have a better relationship!

by | Dec 21, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality, Relationship & Marriage Advice | 76 comments

3 C’s to stop in your marriage to have a better relationship!

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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76 Comments

  1. Haslina Akbar

    Don’t compare
    Don’t criticise
    Don’t create fantasy person

  2. Fedaa Moussa

    I love ur spirit

  3. Benish Azhar

    Jazaak Allah Al_Khair

  4. Feroza Asmall

    Shaaista Khan Nadia Osman Bilal Asmall

  5. Shamina Banu

    What if your spouse doesn’t say anything. But just observes critically that is what I feel but I never get to know because my spouse is relactant to discuss anything face to face.

  6. Rashida Mohomed

    Sister Hela I love you talks

  7. Nadia Hope

    I just love listening to you. Much

  8. Liz Saharom

    I love your jacket so elegant!

  9. Sincere Lee

    I agree. But we do need to compare both ourselves and our marriage to what we are reminded about in our deen. We need standards, healthy models, something to work towards. I think the issue is that many just go through the rituals of Islam and neglect the heart. It all begins in the hearts and so many neglect their own. If your heart is unavailable to yourself it can no be available to anyone else.

  10. Laila Lashin

    Zaki AbAbdullah

  11. Rida Ali

    Not only in marriage but in other relations

  12. Rida Ali

    Share how to deal when u face these Cs

  13. Rida Ali

    Tell how to deal with this too

  14. Aisha Imran Patel

    To be honest I dnt really care if they did there problem

  15. Aisha Imran Patel

    N they always kept killing my self esteem

  16. Aisha Imran Patel

    I get compared to my sis all the time. Funnily now it’s stop coz she did something that upset everyone so badly

  17. Amany Hussiny

    Sheref Abdelmonem

  18. Heba Khalid

    May Allah protect and reward you

    • Haleh Banani

      Heba Khalid Jazakillah Khair.

  19. Gandho Ibn Abubakar Jallow

    May Allah reward you I do forward your lecture on our page Gambia psychology student Association

    • Haleh Banani

      Gandho Ibn Abubakar Jallow Thank you fir sharing the Khair. I’m glad it’s beneficial Alhamdulillah.

  20. Lubna Shareef

    Suppose I don’t If the spouse is criticising , then what are we to do

  21. Shazia Ali

    Ma Shaa Allah.. so much love nd dua for u. Jazak Allah for sharing

    • Haleh Banani

      Kabeerah Ummu Salma Ojutalayo I really appreciate it. Thank you!

  22. Erum Ansar

    Criticized many times but the result is zero so i decided to struggle for to live with it

  23. Erum Ansar

    Wonderful discussin Halee

    • Haleh Banani

      Erum Ansar Alhamdulillah

  24. Erum Ansar

    Comparing leaves one alone

  25. Farah Bashir

    Mahira Mujeeb

  26. Kauthar Busari

    You are awesome with your tips

    • Haleh Banani

      Jazaki Allah Khair I’m glad you are benefiting

  27. Kauthar Busari

    I love the name 3c’s

  28. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Appreciation n gratitude!

  29. Raabia Hawa

    InshaAllah sister

  30. Jessica Abdulkareem

    It only takes one person to start making the attempt!

  31. Zubeida Ottley

    Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh. From South Wales. UK. Nice to listen to another knowledgeable lecture. Love it.

    • Haleh Banani

      Zubeida Ottley Wa aliakum assalam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh! welcome and so happy you are benefiting Tabarak Allah… feedback like this is what keeps me going

    • Haleh Banani

      Fatima Zahraah Abduraouf Masha’Allah Tabarak Allah. I pray you always grow closer together in love, friendship and support

      • Fatima Zahraah Abduraouf

        Haleh Banani
        Allaahummah Aameen
        Jazaakillaahu khairan
        I love your program
        Alhamdulillah

  32. Raabia Hawa

    I will inshaAllah

  33. Raabia Hawa

    I wish my spouse would agree to a session with you. Please make dua for him. It would be so good if he accepted to do a course.

      • Nadia Hawa

        Could you do it on your own?

        • Haleh Banani

          The majority start alone

          • Haleh Banani

            it’s rare when both are on the same page in the beginning

          • Nadia Hawa

            Haleh Banani that’s very reassuring to know because it gives a lot of hope knowing what others have done – jazakillah khair

          • Haleh Banani

            you are both contributing to the problem…. when you start to make the necessary changes, no matter how small your contribution to the problem is, your spouse will begin to reflect it and get motivated to make a commitment to fixing your marriage

          • Nadia Hawa

            Haleh Banani That is amazing advice mashaAllah! Raabia Hawa you could go for it on your own and make your own intention strong. Do your best and Allah will take care of the rest xxx

          • Haleh Banani

            Nadia Hawa Bartak Allah feeki

  34. Khadijah Komah

    Avery good advice. May Allah reward you

    • Haleh Banani

      Ameen! Jazaki Allah Khair

  35. Raabia Hawa

    Assalaam Aleikum

    • Nadia Hawa

      Ooh walaikum salam cuz!

  36. Faiz Khondakar

    খুব ভালো বলছেন।

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