3 Ways To Get Your Children To Open Up To You
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Be friendly familiar to them
Pls his do I get access to the book on emotional intelligence u talked about
Jazakhallahu khair
-1 be interested and do the things they like to do.
-2 hold yourself from getting angry every time they tell you something they did and you don’t like, and advise them after.
-3 don’t give lecture, wait and nicely talk to the after in a friendly way.
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I think most Muslims do not know what is emotional intelligence
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Aoa
1) do something your child is interested in
2) try not to react and listen to your children
3) no lectures, we need to educate
Don’t force if they are not ready to share something. Respecting their emotion or understanding the difficulty to share helps them to heal and easy to express later. Making humor of day in day out struggle is truly powerful. The challenging part is active listening
Haleh Banana. Just this video can you please help make a video for pre teen and teen children. Addressing them to understand the parents perspective also.
That’s the biggest problem we are facing because of covid too kids home all the time and after school playing games, Thank you for the advises !!jazakallah khair.
Something I learned
1. Stopped being judgmental
2. Relate to the current environment rather than our childhood times
3. Eye contact or being in the eye level
Fathimath Ashan Great mashaAllah!
Three ways to make your children open up to you:
1. Show interest in the things your children are interested.
2. Control your temper/reaction
3. Stop lecturing.
Ameen
Well said
Rizwan Mirza
What if what they are sharing is not right worldly or islamically .. how do u correct them then ?
Sheeba Wanee You correct them by connecting first.
Also for teens..they do have different experiences they might be scared to share because of scared of being judged. But we need to realize as parents we are also not Psychotherapists to give them the right advice and thus should seek a professionals advice.
Aysha Tosun Very sound advice! Good job!
Fathers also need to be more understanding instead of saying this and that is haram.
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How to be a Better parent is to be a better you.
Kauthar Busari Exactly!
How to deal with very emotional child?
Be a Listener
Have a nice smile on your face
2. Don’t lecture them
Advice and don’t lecture
1. Take interest in what they’re interested in
Listen with listening ears mot over react , no lecturing , understand before giving advise
Listen and don’t lecture
As-salamu’Alaykum dear Haleh