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Does being patient in your marriage mean you have to tolerate abuse and infidelity?

by | May 31, 2021 | Infidelity, Relationship & Marriage Advice, VIOLENCE AND ABUSE | 48 comments

Does being patient in your marriage mean you have to tolerate abuse and infidelity?

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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48 Comments

  1. Ronke Lawal-Abiola

    Married with three kids and not sure of my red lines though I know what I deserve just not ready to take it completely yet…

  2. Trina Aziz

    It is the most important message to open our family eyes and it is really true

  3. Huraira Huraira

    You r awesome really masha Allah Allah bless you ameen

  4. Cassandra Looby

    Thank you for explaining this so truthfully – abuse and infidelity are not acceptable and cause physical and emotional damage to the entire family. It erodes the very foundation of the family.

    • Haleh Banani

      Cassandra Looby You’re very welcome! They are both destructive and dysfunctional.

  5. Hadia Majeed

    Very important & sensitive topic! Good job.

  6. Sajida Alam

    As-Salaam-Alaikum, ‫ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ‬
    ‎بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم. Great advice. Jazak Allah Khair!

  7. Jodda Nonna

    love you sooo much seeing you make feel optimistic

  8. Amna Asghar

    Very important topic. Thank you for taking out the elephant under the carpet <3

  9. Farida Salma

    If Afghan would listen

  10. Zainab Hamid

    Some stays because their parents told them to be patient with that

  11. Jahanara Hoque

    Jamilla Abdullah Can you share this please with the caption to the group InshaAllah? FB still doesn’t allow me to share directly from this page.

  12. Happy Ali

    They have too much time to think

  13. Happy Ali

    Red line austugfiullah

  14. Happy Ali

    You just promoting you academy

  15. Happy Ali

    Feeling say to Muhammad PBUH

  16. Happy Ali

    Kindly go to Afghanistan and address to them

  17. Happy Ali

    What you are watching

  18. Joke Jacobs

    I would love the term abuse being explained more… is control also abuse?

    • Zikra Tarin

      … Exactly… And what about verbal abuse making a person feel unworthy…

  19. Nik Nik Nik

    Will said jazakumlah khairan

  20. Aminah Kurghali

    If they do it once they are likely to do it again .Trust takes time

  21. Zaynab Ahmatullah

    Sometime we believe we have no way out sometimes we are immigrant who gives up everything to be with that person so we are left with nothing or nowhere to go sometime finincially difficulty

  22. Aminah Kurghali

    It does more damage to the kids as they see and hear more than we know .Women are diamonds so should be treated like that

    • Zikra Tarin

      You mean verbal abuse?

    • Manal Adel Megahed

      Injustice & abuse lead to the feeling of disrespect & depression

  23. MD Badshah

    Assalamualaikum

  24. Zubeida Ottley

    Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh. This topic has appeared just in perfect timing timing to listen to it.

  25. Nimra Farhan

    Asalam o Alikum sister

  26. Tahirah Muslimah

    As-salamu’Alaykum my dear Haleh

  27. Shazia Patel

    Assalamu Alaykum Haleh

  28. Fareeda Abdur-Rahman

    Financial dependence on a spouse is a reason many women stay.

    • Jahara Abellera Solaiman

      Fareeda Abdur-Rahman that’s why it’s important for a woman to have work, because you never know when things will go wrong.

  29. Aminat Umar

    Asalamu alaikum warahamatullah wabarakatuhu

    Watching from Nigeria

  30. Aisha Abbas

    Dont wait in an abusive marriage , if somehow you managed but your kids will never forget the trauma and will never forgive you no matter what.

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