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How will your kids remember you?

by | Nov 17, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality, Parenting and Family | 66 comments

How will your kids remember you?

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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66 Comments

  1. Shahnaz Azam

    Beautiful. Thanks

  2. Sherene Patel

    Assalaam sister what advice can you give for solving a situation where ones grandchildren are kept away after your daughters demise.

  3. Dhilshana Ashraff

    May Allah bless you and your family
    May Allah grant your parents Jannathul Firdhous

    JazakAllah khair for sharing this moment

  4. Erum Syed Imam

    Sr. Haleh may Allah give you more and more sabr. Thank you for benefitting all of us through your own grief.

  5. Omid Akbary

    What about a father who has destroyed his son s life for ever in this life?

  6. Fatama Begum

    Zazakallah khairan!

  7. Nadia A Khan

    How can we become a part of these classes on Tuesday?

  8. Samina Yar

    My uncle (may Allah bless him a place in Jannat) he once said do two things in life and that is to make 2 people happy each day and make sure one of them is yourself

  9. Samina Yar

    May Allah make the difficulty easy. Ameen. I realize while my parents are recovering from covid and made me realize how much they have done for me.

  10. Tash T Hydr

    Faisal Muhammad Tarif May we be remembered by our child(ren) for our noteworthy behavior and good deeds and not by anything negative, Aameen.

  11. Samar Siddiqui

    JazakAllahkhair, Sister. May Allah grant you sabr too.

  12. Fathima Siraja

    your reminders are all time soothing. May Allah reward you for your effort and grant the highest place in jannah for your mother and father

  13. Habiba Hashimi

    Thank you dear sister for words of wisdom. May allah give you strength also to heal while grieving.

  14. Rakiya Mamman

    Always create time for them by putting yourself in their shoes, if need be explain your actions to them whether they appreciate it or not definitely a time will come when the message will make meanings. The memories is what will keep them going it’s all about others not you.

  15. Salma Ali

    We need to be an ideal parents & leave ideal memories in the heart of our kids before we leave this world
    May Allah grant us guidance to reflect upon our shortcomings to set standards to set excellent example for our kids. Aameen

  16. Salma Ali

    Assalamu alaikum sister Haleh. Masha Allah as usual very well explained with the facts & current situations dealt with each & every families whether rich/ poor. Awesome

  17. Saima Samreen

    I need counseling from you how can I contact you

  18. Tammy Meiners Amin

    MashaAllah you are like your mother in the actions I see from you based on the way you talk about your mother.

  19. Sharmeen Ilyas

    Sister Haleh May Allah make it easy for you and give her Highest level in Jannah . Ameen

  20. Najat Al-shejni

    Allah yerhamhom both my parents and yours and may we reunite with them in Janat el Fardous Insha’Allah.

    • Haleh Banani

      Najat Al-shejni Ameen sweetie! You know exactly what I’m going through!

  21. Najat Al-shejni

    Masha’Allah Haleh. I’m so proud of you for being so accepting and strong. May God have mercy on your mother’s soul and grant her the highest place in Jannat el Fardous.

    • Haleh Banani

      Najat Al-shejni Thanks habibti! Alhamdulillah I’ve been praying for strength and acceptance for many years now. Ameen ya rab!

  22. Shabana Sayeed Moolla

    You are so inspiring MashaAllah, May Allah grant your mom the highest abode in jannah Aameen, and grant you sabr

  23. Sajjad B

    Ma Sha Allah

  24. Humera Khan

    Fouzia Haque

  25. Asma Qashou

    Jaziki Allah khair sister Haleh..these videos you are sharing gives me hope. Excellent reminder for all of us..my condolence to you and may Allah grant your mother the highest level of jennah

  26. Fathima Zahan

    Absolutely true. Totally agree with you Sister

  27. Sajjad B

    Salamun Alikum

  28. Fazila Boya

    I really love and benefit from your videos I am sorry to be out of topic ..how do you talk to your daughter who’s doing matric getting attack anxiety of the exams how can I help her

  29. Maya Hadie

    Sometimes many parents educate them the right way but still the kids have another behavior!

  30. Marwa Ismail

    I really love and benefit from your talks. Thank you so much!

  31. Khawla Tabassum

    And who have these regrets what can they do???? Please

  32. Leila Chahbar

    I am so proud of your caring and loving work. May Allah protect you and reward you.

    • Suzan Barakat

      Leila Chahbar Ameen ya Rabb

      • Reshma Begum

        Alhumdulillah for your loving words.

  33. Inna Ali Adamu

    Jazakhallahu khairan

  34. Mano Adhahs

    Jazzak Allah khair dear sister for your lovely talk

  35. Nader Almgadmi

    No body is perfect only the almighty, thanks a lot of presenting these topics as we always face them however we have to be aware of them

  36. Gul Khan

    No

  37. Sakina Ahmed

    Jazakallah khair dear sister . Your videos are very motivating and helpful. Please keep them going.
    May allah bless u with health, wealth and happiness in both the worlds

  38. Numera Kazmi

    May Allah reunite us in Jannatul Firdous with our parents (Ameen).

  39. Jazmine Hardison

    I have so much anger towards my mother.

  40. Munawara Hussen Esmael

    Maa Shaa Allah Tabarakallah May Allah bless you Sister

  41. Surya Azad

    Ameen Jazakallah Khair

  42. Seema Samie

    Please accept our heartfelt condolences on this sad demise of your mom

  43. Munawara Hussen Esmael

    I lost my Mom too 6 years ago May Allah reunited us all in Jannaha all together

  44. Mariam Aziz

    Ma sha ALLAH … SADQA E JARIYA tips

  45. Khawla Tabassum

    May Allah reward her with jannatul ferdous

    • Suzan Barakat

      Khawla Tabassum Ameen

  46. Salma Hamid

    Asalamualaikum!

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