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Is it possible to save your marriage if you’re the only one trying?

by | Dec 28, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality, Relationship & Marriage Advice | 44 comments

Is it possible to save your marriage if you’re the only one trying?

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By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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44 Comments

  1. Jahara Abellera Solaiman

    It takes two to tango, as the saying goes. But a spouse who remains unresponsive after you’ve done everything says a lot about what could happen next in the marriage. Maybe if it gets to that, it’s time to let go of that person and prioritize your healing and start all over again.

    • Haleh Banani

      Jahara Abellera Solaiman There are times when it is necessary to end the marriage. I always encourage my clients to give it one last try to do the tested and proven methods to save the marriage. I’m sure you’re doing everything you know, but not everything that’s available.

  2. Asiyah Amin

    100•/•

  3. Fatim Kaba

    This is so true Jazak Allah Khair always

  4. NUrat Salmi Zaki

    I pray zikar Ytulqirse .still feel alon

  5. NUrat Salmi Zaki

    Pry for me plese .i feel alon .wn i hurt

  6. Shehra Peer

    Takes two hands to clap…

  7. Umme Zayna

    Masha’Allah as always such wise words sis ! May Allah swt reward u always for sharing your wisdom

    • Haleh Banani

      Umme Zayna Jazakillah Khair! I appreciate your dua.

  8. Amiena Ajam

    Totally agree… If the spouse is open-minded to it all.

  9. Huda Mud

    You are so beautiful Masha Allah .

    • Haleh Banani

      Huda Mud Jazakillah Khair for your sweet words.

      • Munawara Hussen Esmael

        Maa Shaa Allah Tabarakallah What a beautiful topic May Allah reward you sister

  10. Fariha Irshad

    I agree with you sister as it works . JazakAllah Khair for all your help .

    • Haleh Banani

      Fariha Irshad Wa iyyaki!

  11. Laila Lashin

    Rehab Lashine

  12. Miral Ezz

    100% right

  13. Shafnaz Mfz

    Fathima Shifana Gany

  14. Amina Forchu

    What if you change and he doesn’t change would you continue with the change or go back to your normal ways please…my first time here

    • Haleh Banani

      Amina Forchu It’s imperative to learn to make the right changes that bring about the results you want in the relationship. You might think you are doing what you would like done for you or to you but your spouse may need something completely different.

  15. Ayesha Khan

    We love Sr haleh

    • Haleh Banani

      Ayesha Khan You’re so sweet! Thank you

  16. Fatima Mobasshir

    You are right both have to change to some extent. We should try to fix ourselves first then ask the other person to fix themselves.

    • Haleh Banani

      What I’m saying is when you behave in a different way then your spouse will respond differently which starts the change.

  17. Muhamad Nizar Mwinzagu

    What’s the point of staying with someone who lies about everything?

    • Haleh Banani

      Muhamad Nizar Mwinzagu Without trust it’s not possible to have a working relationship. There needs to be honesty.

  18. Shafi Yare

    Surely yeah by asking almighty Allah to help waking up midnight and asking for almighty Allah and giving out sadaqa and surely allah will help u out

    • Haleh Banani

      Yes of course Masha’Allah along with doing our part and taking the correct “asbaab” by learning what works and acting on it.

      • Shafi Yare

        Haleh Banani Masha allah this is my first ever time to watch and surely indeed ur doing phenomenal job and it will help reduce divorces for sure and May almighty Allah reward for ur all hardworking and helping people to have proper better less problem marriage

        • Haleh Banani

          Shafi Yare Ameen and Jazakum Allah khair. That is our mission, to stop unnecessary divorces by giving the most effective faith-based psychological tools to build relationships, strengthen marital friendship, and resolve conflict. Barak Allah feekum for your feedback and happy you liked it, alhamduillilah!

  19. Horty Crop

    The correct choice is the best

  20. Sevgi Miller

    Assalamu Alaikum.

    • Haleh Banani

      Wa alaikum Assalam

  21. Abir Atieh

    You are the best

    • Haleh Banani

      Jazaki Allah Khair you are so sweet, I am so happy you are benefitting!

      • Abir Atieh

        Hamdallah when I see your smile I feel happy Mashallah

        • Haleh Banani

          Abir Atieh you’re so kind mashaAllah!

  22. Horty Crop

    Slam alikom

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