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The One Thing Successful Parents Never Do With Their Children and what you should do instead

by | Oct 13, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 26 comments

The One Thing Successful Parents Never Do With Their Children & What You Should Do Instead

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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26 Comments

  1. Asma Imad

    Thankyou. I agree wholeheartedly. however I was hoping you would tell us ‘what’ the successful parents do and ‘how’ to do it.. you talked more about ‘ what not to do’

  2. Aisha Patel

    Be the children’s best friend but be kind in doing so have boundaries too.

  3. Muhammad Asif Khan

    Main reason why we have been the most important thing that you are not the other side of

  4. Lubna Habib

    You have not put any recommendations.

  5. BalQiz Nur

    Sacdiyo Mohamed Abdirahman

  6. Lina Muktar

    How do we strike the balance

  7. Habiba Hashimi

    Navid Panjshiri Maryam Hashimi

  8. BM Shatnawi

    Salam alakum

  9. Kelmend Marikona Ismaili

    Dear sister can you give us an example whats work and worth that you tried before and you was pleasant with results?… because we know with patient and kind you can achieve lots of thing but for example how to work with kids 2 to 3 years when you try every way and still the kid refuse to listen and they cry?

  10. Nida Ayub

    Beautiful reminders

  11. Saima Zakir

    Thanks for this talk sister

  12. Kishwar Sheikh

    This was needed by me but I lose my patience and get overwhelmed but it always caused more harm

  13. Syeda Tauseef

    Uzma Mohammed Ashfaquddin

  14. Sabina Ismail Umm Abdullah

    Jazakallah khairan kaseera…your sessions are so very beneficial and lots to learn from .
    The enthusiasm and positivity is truly contagious:)

  15. Al-Ameen S. Muhammad

    Jazak’Allahu khairan sister, this is really deep,insightful and inspiring. I have witnessed such consequencies of harsh relationship with kids and pushing them to perform acts of deen, ultimately resulting in pushing them away from the deen.

  16. Samra Uddin

    Thank you

  17. Nad Justmoi

    Thanks sisters… I understand we need to make it a pleasant experience… Does anyone have any practical suggestions how we can actually do this.. I have a seven year old and 5 year old and my seven year old son sees learning the quran and praying as such a chore.. How can we Intice them to actually want to do it?

    • Hina Fatima

      I make it our fun time. We do wudu together and I tell them, let’s hurry pray so we can play this game, or I’ll read you this book, or we’ll go out or I’ll cook your favorite food. Etc. It’s an act of habit formation. At that age, once they develop a habit of praying then automatically the importance of prayers and it’s benefits can be inculcated.

      • Nad Justmoi

        Hina Fatima thanks sis

  18. Fathima Zahan

    wa alaikum salam wrwb

  19. Shazia Abbasi

    So true, I am trying to instilling it in my kids… and I keep reminding them that don’t do anything to please me.

  20. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Hikmah… that’s very important in dawa. The same with children also.

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