What to do about your mother-in-law?
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My only adherent towards my mother in law and husband is she never let me see my parents i should be free to see my parents
Correct
Can you name the phd doc in tafseer u mentioned??
May Allah bless you so much sister
Love your examples..yes wallahee robot to shaytan, May Allah guide us all and forgive our short comings, astaghfirallah, sighhh
Allah yirhamha Ameen
Yes so true Subhana allah
Love you for Allah’s sake. Such wise words ma shallah Tabarak Allah
S.A.W
Message can only be received by open heart and rarely are men able to talk to their parents about this use
In Turkish culture is called kayna, and ın South Afrıcan trıbal Cultural maghottı, dheen gets used
Sometimes it’s the opposite, guys take wife’s side and believe everything the wife says against the mother.
May Allah make us wise mother in laws
I’m blessed to have my mil. She sticks up for me more than her son bless her heart. She actually knows how to balance us as she is very just.
You’re amazing
Love listening to you and every video gives so much perspective. May Allah bless you so so much for doing what you do. Ameen
Assalam o Alaikum! Valuable advices ..JazakAllah khair ♡
Zainab Danial
The way an individual interprets an action determine the reactions we.resort to.
I do not have one , no comment.
Exactly… these words are gold and I exactly say the same for every relationship .. treat them as you wanted to be treated when you are in their place.. at times, it is hard when you do all you possibly can but still get the negative remarks.. However, Allah sees everything and He will take care of everything as long as we have patience.
That’s it, validate!!
Ameen
My late MIL is so kind, softspoken and very understanding.
Harne Haris
Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh. Alhamdhulilah nice to listen to your lecture once again. I love it.
Soo bad I don’t want to talk
Nice
Oh sister when u cried I cried
Same… she’s so inspiring Subahanallah
Zahra Meme you’re so sweet!
Love doesn’t work if it’s just one sided sister it’s better leave the relationship
Now I’m single mum but I’m a lot happier they will surely suffer as they made me suffer
Forgiveness makes you free, kindly forgive them don’t wish them bad
My marriage broke because of my in-laws as husband always toke one side
Farah Meer
Uzma Chohan very well said.. love her! Thanks
And pray for her same as my Mom
I love my Mother In law
Ameeennnn
A very beneficial advice. We have to make sure we are not the twisted one. We need to respect our mother in law as they gave birth to our loving husbands. And trust that Allah will help us , our family In Sha Allah.
Very good advice, spot on.
I have the very very best MIL. She welcomed me into her family when I married her oldest son.
r those videos available for free,?
Shaheen Siddique The videos are part of my marriage program available for purchase.
May Allah bless you sister.
Ameen Jazaki Allah Khair
Ameen Ameen
Side note, Looking great Alhamdulilah
Fatima Zb you’re so sweet- thank you!
Excellent advice
Disputes and perps do exist in our community Ameen
Such great advice in all your videos MashaAllah! I wish this becomes a part of training for young couples even before they get married.
Samina Maqdum I’ve made a premarital program for the newly weds. https://courses.halehbanani.com/join-laugh-and-learn
Know people who have directly or indirectly
Jealousy
Great advice, great lesson
Thank you @Gabriella Almi
Patience patience
There are beautiful mil God bless them
Aw Haleh May Allah bless you and your Moms Soul InshaAllah
Fatima Zb Jazakillah Khair!
Every post lol
The biggest problem is mil doesn’t concentrate you as blood so your aways an outcast
I think this happens when the daughter in law expects too much from her in laws. As adults we should wisely accept that some people don’t have big hearts. We don’t need them to accept us. We take full control of our life and family. Seeing ourselves as the outcasts from our mother in laws perspective is damaging and causes low self esteem and depression. So it’s better to keep their rotten mindset in their minds and move on with our lives and focus on our own success, career, beauty, imaan, children, and MONEY. A lot if times mothers in law love and feel closer to those daughters in law that make the most money You just guard your precious mind, and body.
Khadeeja Hashimi MashAllah your so right and smart. It does have to do with my own mindset. And yes money!! Your amazing Thank you for the insight
MaShaAllah tebarekallah thank you so much.. can you give a example for brother in law if they interrupt in someone marriage and disrespectful?
Allah knows my heart can only take so much
I’m sorry you are going through challenges. It does help to be part of a supportive community. Try joining the Mindful Hearts Academy https://themindufheartsacademy.com insha’Allah
Sometimes it’s too much fighting and I want to stay away for peace.
Exactly !
If possible , try not to live together.. ! A tip to have a beautiful relationship.
Tahira Asaf Ali If you’ve had a good experience then you’re the exception. I personally don’t advise living together if you don’t have to.
Subhanallah so much wisdom!
Mechanics are not Islam
Mechanics
It’s about giving, right on about the weight of our words…Alhamdulilah
MashaAllah!
Good guy Alhamdulilah
Listening is a good skill.
Do you sometimes speak to men or address men, during your live sessions?
Yes, if you listen to the entire video you will see we do talk to men and I do my best to balance my advice. The vast majority of the listeners are women so the content is catered to them and addressing what is in their control. Barak Allah feeki. I hope you are benefiting!
Validation would work wonders