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Why can’t others make me happy? 🙁

by | Sep 4, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 70 comments

Welcome to Fabulous Fridays where I will teach you various psychological tricks to help you become your BEST! Many times we put our happiness in the hands of others. Find out why this is dysfunctional and how it backfires.

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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70 Comments

  1. Zulfa Riley

    Alhamdulilah bringing tears to my eyes

  2. Fer Faz

    Because happiness is quality of soul,
    Worship GOD alone you will be happy.

    Guaranteed Happiness
    Now and Forever

    97. Anyone who works righteousness, male or female, while believing, we will surely grant them a happy life in this world, and we will surely pay them their full recompense (on the Day of Judgment) for their righteous works.

  3. Um Omar

    Barik Allahu feek

  4. Boshra Saad

    Great talk. JAK

  5. Nads Nads

    Mashallah great information

  6. Sana Azhar

    You are so awesome. Even your single look gives me boost in positivity.

  7. Bahidja Majiet

    Very inspiring…thank you …

  8. Mays Baker

    Jazaki Allah khairn for your great message.

  9. Humeza Shahzad

    You truly inspire me by your speech you are presenting to help us to become the better version of ourselves.

  10. Kazi Iffath Naher

    Musarrat Islam please watch the lecture.

  11. Kazi Iffath Naher

    Thank you sister haleh.great talk.

  12. Zaheda Jugoo

    Assalamualaikum sister Haleh this is awesome.

  13. Syeda Shameem Sultana

    Assalamu alaikum rehmatullah wa barkatuhu beautiful & positive suggestions as always.

  14. Tamania Omer

    Women need to hear this more as we are the ones not happy with ourselves as we are constantly busy making others happy.we neglect ourselves and then it becomes a habit..very inspirational talk sister

  15. Arwa Shaqareen

    I feel like you talking about me !!! Sometimes i don’t know why I’m sad ! negative ! without even real reason , i think this topic will help me alot .

  16. Tamania Omer

    Assalamoalaikum…listening

  17. Aisha Baig

    I like your advice

  18. Creana Saif

    Jazak ALLAH khair dear sister Haleh for this amazing advice

  19. Myljoe Helal

    Revelation 3:20

    20Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in and dine with him, and he with Me.

    The lord Jesus Christ is always knocking on your heart for you to accept him call out to him pour your heart to him he will litterally set you free and you shall know the truth of our God he loves you and wants you to seek him ,so seek him ask him to come into your heart he is knocking on hour heart every day. God bless you I pray that you shall seek the lord Jesus Christ and recieve him as your lord and saviour. Amen

  20. Yasmin Khan

    Are you doing sister every Friday at 12:00 eastern time

  21. Tania TanZir

    This was so very peaceful to listen to!

  22. Md. Syful Islam Saif

    Yeap it’s universal true that we need internally deep clean of our soul.

  23. Amy Hamden

    Asalam Alikoom…. deep cleaning of self… I love it

  24. Ummi Musa

    How can we join the group ypu mentioned

  25. Niveen Torky

    What is the name of the group again please

  26. Saadia Muzaffar

    Beautiful message as always. Loves all the positive suggestions and empowering the mind and soul. Shukran Dearest Sr. Haley. Your words and advice bring us closer to Allah and His Hukm. Much love and duas

    • Haleh Banani

      Saadia Muzaffar Thank you so much for your sweet words. I appreciate it.

  27. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Just to become a better version of myself! N to help others, may b later.

  28. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Thank you. Will follow. In sha Allah

  29. Nazia Qureshi

    How do we get the power back?

  30. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Learn to say Thank you, Allah. N b grateful for all those difficulty you don’t have.

  31. Tasneem Dudhia

    Alhamdulilah, very motivational talk, jzkl khairan

  32. Fatima Wise

    Mindful sisters

  33. Ummi Musa

    Forzana Khanom Ahmed this was so useful, please check it out.

  34. Azra Saeed

    Allah o Akbar
    How I needed to hear this reminder!

  35. Fathima Zahan

    Allahumma baarik laha, as usual another inspirational talk

  36. Fathima Zahan

    jazakallah khairan and wa alaikum salamwrwb

  37. Uzma Ali

    Salam sister

  38. Afshan Ehsan

    JazakAllahkhair dear sister

  39. Dee P Arrow

    Assalamu alaikum wrwb!!! Watching from the Philippines

  40. Melor Rahman

    MasyaAllah i need to hear this! Tq so much!

  41. Uzma Ali

    Children are one of the main tests…

  42. Ruksana Hussain

    This lady is amazing, I didn’t know a Muslim spiritual lady like this existed whom I can learn and get inspired so much from. I already follow Caroline myss , Wayne dyer, now this beautiful lady

    • Haleh Banani

      Ruksana Hussain Jazakillah Khair! Alhamdulillah you benefitted!

  43. Najia Sarwari

    Jaazk Allah kherian my lovely sister

  44. Diana Hamida

    Jazakallah khair sister

  45. Najia Sarwari

    Mashallah useful topic my dear sister

  46. Shahnaz Bano

    JazakAllah Khair for your lovely way of teaching us how to improve ourselves with the best possible way according to our religion.

  47. Emira Adel Ramic

    Salam , how do you turn negative toughts and negativity into positive so you can become happier

  48. Uzma Ali

    The test analogy is really perfect…it really keeps me going

  49. Melor Rahman

    I love topic. Can you give some advice about toxic positivity, and how to overcome challenges with gratitude

  50. Zarina Malawiya

    Salam..is it usefull sisters u said sister

  51. Diana Hamida

    Salam Haleh, thank you for doing this live Could you please give us some tips on how to accept bad situations and have patience on Allah’s plan even if things keep going wrong… it’s quiet difficult sometimes. Jazakallah khair you’re amazing!

  52. Shahnaz Bano

    وعلیکم اسلام ۔

  53. Uzma Ali

    Taking each day as a test from Allah

  54. Uzma Ali

    This is beautiful..what you just said

  55. Amara Shahid

    You came up with very crucial topic. This has been practice in our society since long time and we need to realize this for our better especially being parents.

  56. Haleh Banani

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