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It’s ok to have a relationship in a distance but what’s the most important is the communication must be sustainable,but no text no calls it seems that you’re just imagining your love right?
But i must admit, that many of our Muslim brothers and sisters are emotionally unfit, i have experience many cases like that in my sociaty, sadly, and i got chocked how videly spread it was, because I never saw that in my own parents, it was very clear when my father passed away, that my mother had lost her best friend and rock, alhamdullah she never said anything bad about their marrige, she only eksprest gratitude till the day she died.
And please it is not being arrogant or something like that but you have take care of your own mental health as well, because you might have other greater responsibilities too, such as children maybe?
Please if you are an average woman then, give it a few years of trying and working on the marrige if it doesn’t work, then move on witht a calm and rational mindset, don’t waist your time and your children’s future on these no good advises, which are for “super women”, many of os who come from these cultures got waisted pretty badly by these kind of advises, and to be honest, already within a year or so you would know if you “beating a pillow or not” so “listen” to the red lights, not every woman is a “fix’er” and frankly I don’t think it is our job to so, either
Shagufta Parveen is agree with you. All these tips even work better while dealing with a person who sees the need for a change in their behaviors. Not for someone who has his mind made up and will do everything to smear you when you finally begin to stand up for yourself.
As women, it’s not out job to fix a long broken person.
Loyalty, disrespect, commitment and communication is what people fight about most which boils down to accountability, immaturity, emotional distancing which leads to emotional and physical distancing and ultimately, fear…
People will do more to avoid pain than they will for long term pleasure, connection and happiness.
That’s not nothing.
Sean Mcgrath some of my sister’s are old bitter ladies now and with no where to go, other then stay in the marrige, i my self never ever regretted that i after 10 years of counseling and compromising, chosed to close that chapter, alhamdulillah with a clear heart, and today i am 58 years old, alhamdulillah Allah kept His hand over me all these years
Sean Mcgrath so very true, but don’t forget that you have to know when to quit, long term marital happiness and pleasure is not written in every marrige, that is a fact of life, so you have put things in the right perspektiv
Sehar Asad come on sister that’s not not intirely true, it depends very much on the cultural background people are from, i think, but if you are from the sub continent, then it could very well be the norm more then the exception , i spent half of my life down there, but it is also the place where some diamonds and gems are coming from
Description of a narcisstic person. Married for 45 years,,left my 3 adult children really screwed up They feel I should have left years ago to protect them. Thanks
Madam. Your. All. Mix. Every. Time. Look. To. Wrong. Me. I. No. Your. Programme. All. So. I’m. Not. Fight. I. Say. Speak. OK. Speak. And. Fight. Two. Any. One. Have. Speak. This. Not. Problem
We are many
Run as fast as you can don’t look back no dealing
Wonderfully explained…..
It’s ok to have a relationship in a distance but what’s the most important is the communication must be sustainable,but no text no calls it seems that you’re just imagining your love right?
So true. Thank you.
Mr
You explained in the best possible way! Jzk Allah for this amazing work MA
Kid’s food and helping out
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Cerise Celeste Zerf
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Me
But i must admit, that many of our Muslim brothers and sisters are emotionally unfit, i have experience many cases like that in my sociaty, sadly, and i got chocked how videly spread it was, because I never saw that in my own parents, it was very clear when my father passed away, that my mother had lost her best friend and rock, alhamdullah she never said anything bad about their marrige, she only eksprest gratitude till the day she died.
Come on, quaking aboat not thing? And they don’t know it them selves? Hmm
And please it is not being arrogant or something like that but you have take care of your own mental health as well, because you might have other greater responsibilities too, such as children maybe?
Please if you are an average woman then, give it a few years of trying and working on the marrige if it doesn’t work, then move on witht a calm and rational mindset, don’t waist your time and your children’s future on these no good advises, which are for “super women”, many of os who come from these cultures got waisted pretty badly by these kind of advises, and to be honest, already within a year or so you would know if you “beating a pillow or not” so “listen” to the red lights, not every woman is a “fix’er” and frankly I don’t think it is our job to so, either
Shagufta Parveen is agree with you. All these tips even work better while dealing with a person who sees the need for a change in their behaviors. Not for someone who has his mind made up and will do everything to smear you when you finally begin to stand up for yourself.
As women, it’s not out job to fix a long broken person.
Loyalty, disrespect, commitment and communication is what people fight about most which boils down to accountability, immaturity, emotional distancing which leads to emotional and physical distancing and ultimately, fear…
People will do more to avoid pain than they will for long term pleasure, connection and happiness.
That’s not nothing.
Sean Mcgrath some of my sister’s are old bitter ladies now and with no where to go, other then stay in the marrige, i my self never ever regretted that i after 10 years of counseling and compromising, chosed to close that chapter, alhamdulillah with a clear heart, and today i am 58 years old, alhamdulillah Allah kept His hand over me all these years
Sean Mcgrath so very true, but don’t forget that you have to know when to quit, long term marital happiness and pleasure is not written in every marrige, that is a fact of life, so you have put things in the right perspektiv
I’m wondering if these emotionally vapid partners are going out of the way to pussyfoot around the victim like you are suggesting the victim do
In that case our muslims majority brothers r like that
Sehar Asad come on sister that’s not not intirely true, it depends very much on the cultural background people are from, i think, but if you are from the sub continent, then it could very well be the norm more then the exception , i spent half of my life down there, but it is also the place where some diamonds and gems are coming from
Description of a narcisstic person. Married for 45 years,,left my 3 adult children really screwed up They feel I should have left years ago to protect them. Thanks
Me Me me
Walking on Eggshells SMH just keep it
Allaha emanetolun
My. Number. One. People. Mother. And. Father
Now. I. Sleak..she. mother. They. Don’t. Have. Any. Problem
Good. Morning. Madam. Now. I. Speak. Mother. We. Don’t. Have. Problem
He’s narcissist
Very much
You. Don’t. Do. My. One. Not. Come. Ask. Me.. My. Last. Time. Tell. You. Not. Disturb. Me. Again. OK. You. Say. To. People.
You offer amazing understanding of the issues and solutions. Thank you.
Put the 7 tips into practice
Jazakallahu khairan
Please. Not. Problem. Make..me. I’m. Not. Mareed
Madam. I’m. Not. Mareed
Lovely video indeed. I mostly don’t express myself because it’s always a disaster for me to discuss something which hurts me so much.
Madam. Please .i. tell. Your. Won’t. .i. like. Tell. To. People. I. Have. No. Problem. This. My. Last. Madam. You. People. Don’t. Like. I. Have. Not. Problem. My. Mareed. Not. People. I’m. And. My. Wife. And. Family. The. All. I. Like.
you are amazing thx and please tell me more
No. Problem. She. Come. Speak. Now. I. Won’t. Before. Marred. Speak. She. And. Me. Live.only..this. very. Simple. Think. I. Tell. Don’t. Like. This. No. Problem. I. Go. Every. Body. Good. Buy. Buy
Madam. Your. Tell. Go. This. Pepole. I. Have. More. One. Group. This. Pepole. Say. To. Me. Come.
Not. Go. With. Out. Marred. I’m. Not. Come. I. Speak. Other. Group. This. Problem. After. I. Go. This. Group. Wat. Can. Do. Your
Maybe. Some. Time. I’m. Not. Marred. I. Go. My. Trip. Along. Ok
Madam. Your. All. Mix. Every. Time. Look. To. Wrong. Me. I. No. Your. Programme. All. So. I’m. Not. Fight. I. Say. Speak. OK. Speak. And. Fight. Two. Any. One. Have. Speak. This. Not. Problem
Madam. You. Go. Back. Who. Won’t. To. Speak. Tell. Any. One. Speak. With. Me
UM Gamini you better shut up,,,illiterate fellow.
I. Tell. To. You. No other. Thing. OK. Please. Go. Back. Madam
Please .madam. your. Go. Tell. This. Pepole. My. Problem. Is. This. I. Don’t. Like. Marred. This. Woman. Not. Ask. To. Meany. Quicksion. To. Me. OK. Madam
Madam. Marred. Me. Not. Pepole. Why. Problem. I. Speak. My. Wife
You. Go. Tell. This. My. Problem. I. Won’t. Before. Marred. Speak. Live. We. To
Madam. I. Ask. Quicksion. You. Speak. Other. Very. Time. You. Do. Like. Please. When. She. Not. Come. To. Speak. With. Me
Why. She. Don’t. Come. To. Speak. With. Me
I. Have. Travelling. Only. My. Teacher. Not. Any. One
She. Have. Now. Three. Man. Your. Not. Look. Me. She. Born. Now. One. Child. All. Good. Only. She. Please. Go. Back
First. You. Understand. Wat. Tell. Why. Your. Try. Marred. This. Woman. She. Not. Control. To. Me. I. Tell. To. She. Come. To. Speak. She. Not. Come. Now. I. Not. Marred. Please. Go. Back
UM Gamini it’s not logical to use full stops unnecessarily.
Madam. I. Don’t. Like. This. Woman. Don’t. Like. This
Marerd