7 tips to deal with an emotionally unavailable spouse | Haleh Banani |

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59 Comments

  1. Helena Shaya

    Run as fast as you can don’t look back no dealing

  2. Vanz Mirwani

    It’s ok to have a relationship in a distance but what’s the most important is the communication must be sustainable,but no text no calls it seems that you’re just imagining your love right?

  3. Mere Naico

    So true. Thank you.

  4. Nadia Makhdumi Siddiqui

    You explained in the best possible way! Jzk Allah for this amazing work MA

  5. Fariha Irshad

    Kid’s food and helping out

  6. Shagufta Parveen

    But i must admit, that many of our Muslim brothers and sisters are emotionally unfit, i have experience many cases like that in my sociaty, sadly, and i got chocked how videly spread it was, because I never saw that in my own parents, it was very clear when my father passed away, that my mother had lost her best friend and rock, alhamdullah she never said anything bad about their marrige, she only eksprest gratitude till the day she died.

  7. Shagufta Parveen

    Come on, quaking aboat not thing? And they don’t know it them selves? Hmm

  8. Shagufta Parveen

    And please it is not being arrogant or something like that but you have take care of your own mental health as well, because you might have other greater responsibilities too, such as children maybe?

  9. Shagufta Parveen

    Please if you are an average woman then, give it a few years of trying and working on the marrige if it doesn’t work, then move on witht a calm and rational mindset, don’t waist your time and your children’s future on these no good advises, which are for “super women”, many of os who come from these cultures got waisted pretty badly by these kind of advises, and to be honest, already within a year or so you would know if you “beating a pillow or not” so “listen” to the red lights, not every woman is a “fix’er” and frankly I don’t think it is our job to so, either

    • Mofoluwaso Oyenike Adepoju

      Shagufta Parveen is agree with you. All these tips even work better while dealing with a person who sees the need for a change in their behaviors. Not for someone who has his mind made up and will do everything to smear you when you finally begin to stand up for yourself.
      As women, it’s not out job to fix a long broken person.

  10. Sean Mcgrath

    Loyalty, disrespect, commitment and communication is what people fight about most which boils down to accountability, immaturity, emotional distancing which leads to emotional and physical distancing and ultimately, fear…
    People will do more to avoid pain than they will for long term pleasure, connection and happiness.
    That’s not nothing.

    • Shagufta Parveen

      Sean Mcgrath some of my sister’s are old bitter ladies now and with no where to go, other then stay in the marrige, i my self never ever regretted that i after 10 years of counseling and compromising, chosed to close that chapter, alhamdulillah with a clear heart, and today i am 58 years old, alhamdulillah Allah kept His hand over me all these years

      • Shagufta Parveen

        Sean Mcgrath so very true, but don’t forget that you have to know when to quit, long term marital happiness and pleasure is not written in every marrige, that is a fact of life, so you have put things in the right perspektiv

  11. Denise Buege Sherrill

    I’m wondering if these emotionally vapid partners are going out of the way to pussyfoot around the victim like you are suggesting the victim do

  12. Sehar Asad

    In that case our muslims majority brothers r like that

    • Shagufta Parveen

      Sehar Asad come on sister that’s not not intirely true, it depends very much on the cultural background people are from, i think, but if you are from the sub continent, then it could very well be the norm more then the exception , i spent half of my life down there, but it is also the place where some diamonds and gems are coming from

  13. Denise Sakran

    Description of a narcisstic person. Married for 45 years,,left my 3 adult children really screwed up They feel I should have left years ago to protect them. Thanks

  14. Antonette Cleaver

    Walking on Eggshells SMH just keep it

  15. UM Gamini

    My. Number. One. People. Mother. And. Father

  16. UM Gamini

    Now. I. Sleak..she. mother. They. Don’t. Have. Any. Problem

  17. UM Gamini

    Good. Morning. Madam. Now. I. Speak. Mother. We. Don’t. Have. Problem

  18. UM Gamini

    You. Don’t. Do. My. One. Not. Come. Ask. Me.. My. Last. Time. Tell. You. Not. Disturb. Me. Again. OK. You. Say. To. People.

  19. Jeanne Zollar Jugovich

    You offer amazing understanding of the issues and solutions. Thank you.

  20. Aisha Abba

    Put the 7 tips into practice
    Jazakallahu khairan

  21. UM Gamini

    Please. Not. Problem. Make..me. I’m. Not. Mareed

  22. UM Gamini

    Madam. I’m. Not. Mareed

  23. Sunaina Irfan

    Lovely video indeed. I mostly don’t express myself because it’s always a disaster for me to discuss something which hurts me so much.

  24. UM Gamini

    Madam. Please .i. tell. Your. Won’t. .i. like. Tell. To. People. I. Have. No. Problem. This. My. Last. Madam. You. People. Don’t. Like. I. Have. Not. Problem. My. Mareed. Not. People. I’m. And. My. Wife. And. Family. The. All. I. Like.

  25. UM Gamini

    No. Problem. She. Come. Speak. Now. I. Won’t. Before. Marred. Speak. She. And. Me. Live.only..this. very. Simple. Think. I. Tell. Don’t. Like. This. No. Problem. I. Go. Every. Body. Good. Buy. Buy

  26. UM Gamini

    Madam. Your. Tell. Go. This. Pepole. I. Have. More. One. Group. This. Pepole. Say. To. Me. Come.

  27. UM Gamini

    Not. Go. With. Out. Marred. I’m. Not. Come. I. Speak. Other. Group. This. Problem. After. I. Go. This. Group. Wat. Can. Do. Your

  28. UM Gamini

    Maybe. Some. Time. I’m. Not. Marred. I. Go. My. Trip. Along. Ok

  29. UM Gamini

    Madam. Your. All. Mix. Every. Time. Look. To. Wrong. Me. I. No. Your. Programme. All. So. I’m. Not. Fight. I. Say. Speak. OK. Speak. And. Fight. Two. Any. One. Have. Speak. This. Not. Problem

  30. UM Gamini

    Madam. You. Go. Back. Who. Won’t. To. Speak. Tell. Any. One. Speak. With. Me

    • Salina Sallie

      UM Gamini you better shut up,,,illiterate fellow.

  31. UM Gamini

    I. Tell. To. You. No other. Thing. OK. Please. Go. Back. Madam

  32. UM Gamini

    Please .madam. your. Go. Tell. This. Pepole. My. Problem. Is. This. I. Don’t. Like. Marred. This. Woman. Not. Ask. To. Meany. Quicksion. To. Me. OK. Madam

  33. UM Gamini

    Madam. Marred. Me. Not. Pepole. Why. Problem. I. Speak. My. Wife

  34. UM Gamini

    You. Go. Tell. This. My. Problem. I. Won’t. Before. Marred. Speak. Live. We. To

  35. UM Gamini

    Madam. I. Ask. Quicksion. You. Speak. Other. Very. Time. You. Do. Like. Please. When. She. Not. Come. To. Speak. With. Me

  36. UM Gamini

    Why. She. Don’t. Come. To. Speak. With. Me

  37. UM Gamini

    I. Have. Travelling. Only. My. Teacher. Not. Any. One

  38. UM Gamini

    She. Have. Now. Three. Man. Your. Not. Look. Me. She. Born. Now. One. Child. All. Good. Only. She. Please. Go. Back

  39. UM Gamini

    First. You. Understand. Wat. Tell. Why. Your. Try. Marred. This. Woman. She. Not. Control. To. Me. I. Tell. To. She. Come. To. Speak. She. Not. Come. Now. I. Not. Marred. Please. Go. Back

    • Salina Sallie

      UM Gamini it’s not logical to use full stops unnecessarily.

  40. UM Gamini

    Madam. I. Don’t. Like. This. Woman. Don’t. Like. This
    Marerd

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