5 signs you’re in a toxic relationship
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My spouse does all of these things and we have started couples therapy. The hardest one is when he lacks the maturity to see the damage this behavior has on our relationship and our children. Or when he says I deserve the abuse or that I push him to this behavior… it’s very hurtful and you can’t take back what you say words do hurts just like physical abuse. Mental abuse is terrible and I feel he doesn’t want to take ownership because he is ashamed of his behavior…
It’s very difficult to live in a toxic relationship when it comes to brothers and sisters or when it comes to a mother daughter relationship when the mother is siding the brother all the time and they are always against you or against your husbands it’s really a toxic kind of relationship which is very difficult to cut because when we live also in the same building and we are as well neighbour is not only can ship from the first kind of relationship , they are unfair, so it’s really terrible I can’t stand it anymore and I really unfortunately can’t take a positive step to release this burden
I leave with that for 5yr Alhamdulilaah it was mad house I was like im going mad how come no one can see until I show the proof
Thanks for sharing , thanks for talking about this.
This is so helpful
Gaslighting is real
But what about the fact that muslim men have to protect us and therefor control us and oppose restrictions… is that also toxic?
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
This is so true
Not gonna let insensitive things brothers say about marriage get to me anymore, it ruined my week last week and i cried my eyes out in hopelessness. Just realise they arent in charge and i wont let them take ahold of my emotions. If they want to br broken and part of muslim women of the west shaming and finger pointing movement and not be able to value a good quality muslima when they see it, i wont make it my problem anymore and wont go on tangents anymore or stress or maje myself sad over it. Ill focus on ihsan.
Lack of trust.
Gaslighting is the most difficult one
their deep insecurities n they try to physically n emotinally n verbal abuse .
Khadija Joosab Moti Waheeda Joosab Yacoob
How does it get fixed
Insulting you and blaming you for everything.
Hakeem Kumail
Disrespect and not understanding their roles as a Man or Woman
Very true, been there done that, never again.
Very important points what about the spouse that constantly blame and shame and accused the person ,,
How can one save their marriage when the next one sees nothing wrong in his abusive behavior
How can you leave a toxic relationship if you have no money and nowhere to go
Gaslighting
SubhanAllah…this is all a power game. How would you then fix someone who does these things?
Negativity
Cognitive Dissonance
Gaslighting
Assalamu alaikum
Amazing sister, thank you!!
So true
Ameen
السلام عليكم
Aameen.. JazakAllah Khair
Need professional help
Shamila Ramasia
My problem is very controlling financially
Always putting you down
Being told that I am not good enough and getting the silent treatment
Blame game
Thanks God I have them all
As salam alaykum, thank you for talking about these things. They are extremely important and they can’t be tolerated. May Allah protect us.
How Can i LEAVE toxic relationship
Aslamualikum
Assalámu Alaikum Warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuhu Wamahfirratuhu
Assalam o Alaikum,
Asalam Alaykum Ma’am