Avoid Saying These 2 Things & Get Your Kids To Cooperate!

by | Oct 20, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 67 comments

Avoid Saying These 2 Things & Get Your Kids To Cooperate! Many times we may be causing our kids to be defensive and oppositional by the things we say to them. Watch this video to avoid these 2 mistakes.

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67 Comments

  1. Fozia Ahmed

    Sadia Ahmed Usma Ahmed Imrana Ahmed Nighat Sultana

  2. Kabeerah Ummu Salma Ojutalayo

    Ma shaa Allah tabarakAllaah, It’s always fulfilling with you, may Allaah preserve you for us, aameen ya Rabb

  3. Binte Zohirul

    Avoid using ‘ALWAYS’ & ‘NEVER’.
    That’ll be more accurate, fair.

  4. Maroona Omar

    What about saying you are always good to me , what happened?
    You never said no to me what happened?!!!

  5. Fatima Bibi

    Salaam from south africa

  6. Nazeema Brenner

    Don’t use Never & Always

  7. Jabin Zinnurain

    JazakaAllah khair for the advise sister…try my best to implement on my child

  8. Jabin Zinnurain

    Assalamualaikum sister …

  9. Judi Loz

    I love this

  10. Ahlam Nur

    Thank You sis May Allah reward you

  11. Salma Ali

    Masha Allah sister Haleh very important tips & we all are benefitting a lot. May Allah bless you. Aameen

  12. Asma Tayyab

    Salaam from Pakistan

  13. Hapsah Mohamed

    Tqvm for your advice Dr. Haleh Banani

  14. Hapsah Mohamed

    Alhamdullillah Assalamualaikum from Malaysia

  15. Rowshonara Khanom

    What a valuable advice! InShaAllah will try to implement with my children!

  16. Fathima Shezneen

    Sumun Raeesah you can try following the Mindful hearts Academy of Sister Haleh. It has all the answers you are looking for.

  17. Feroza Regal Haroun

    I have learnt to avoid, using never and always in any form.

  18. Feroza Regal Haroun

    Sister what is the best way to displine , when the child does not listen?

  19. Sara Afzal

    Ameen.

  20. Sakina Ahmed

    Jazakallah khair dear sister .. ur advice s so precious

  21. Asmaa El-kilany

    Salam, Although I try my best to be fair. Kids take advantage of your kindness and continue to be defiant. What are some other suggestions?

  22. Zeenat Saif

    JazakAllah khairan

  23. Aysha Mo

    May Allah bless you abundantly!

  24. Aysha Mo

    I want to study clinical psychology too.

  25. Aysha Mo

    What do I say rather?

  26. Selcan Ercilasun

    Saying ‘I get to’ instead of it have to’ has been very beneficial.

  27. Gihan Albassel

    child victimizing himself how to treat

  28. Selcan Ercilasun

    Okay but obviously we are exaggerating in order to express our frustration. People should be able interpret what we say.

  29. Uzba Sukhera

    JazakAllah kheir sister

  30. Mar Ya

    Are you taking new patients from out of state via televisits? Particular CBT

  31. Sarah Wahid

    Erum Shahzad

  32. Mar Ya

    Salam sister. I am benefitting so much from your lectures. May Allah swt bless you for your efforts. I know you’re based in Texas but are you taking new patients via televisits?

  33. Erum Ashar

    Salam from Edmonton

  34. Saima Zakir

    We set the examples as parents

  35. SB Khan

    I had tons of questions but forgot all of them now. Just want to say Thank you for doing this. Every little thing helps.

  36. Sidrah Sayed

    Where can I find all the Tuesday lectures, SubanAllah i dnt know about them.

  37. Faduma Xubi

    Amiin yarabii

  38. Nadia Elabed

    Salam alikom sister how to deal if your child is scared from the dark and bad dreams and is obsessed by his fear .

  39. Umme Ibrahim

    How to make them listen and be stick if even we are not there?

  40. Faduma Xubi

    Any advice how to handle my girl whom is soon 11 years old and I see her behaver changing

  41. Raeesah Sumun

    Why do we reach to a point where we question our love for our family?

  42. Sidrah Sayed

    I always wonder MashAllah how beautifully uv raised your children.I am sure its not been easy.If you had advice us your top 3 what shld that be,my kids are 6 and 8.

  43. Kishwar Sheikh

    They say u are always wanting me to do salah quran or telling me chores or talk about being good to my lil brother so if I fix one thing you complain about the other……

  44. Aferdita Kodra

    Selam alejkum everyone

  45. Kishwar Sheikh

    My kids do not want to sit with me anymore and want to be on the computer all the time

  46. Raeesah Sumun

    I don’t have any self confidence because i have received the always and nevers. How do we build ourselves again from scratch?

  47. Fatima Chanel

    What age should we expect our children to show gratitude?

    • Atira Syed

      Fatima Chanel
      When they are babies and toddlers , in their high chairs and you are feeding them.
      Just say “thank you” with a smile each time you pop a spoonful of their food in their little mouth.

  48. Tayyaba Bilal

    What if kid is using too much mobile and it’s very hard to make him acceptive

  49. Ousebr Mintjaiteh

    If you don’t say they never and always what should we say now now

  50. Mahwesh Kapadia

    How do we tell our kids the difference between sharing information vs comparing them with other kids.

  51. Kishwar Sheikh

    If we have been doing thisfrng and now change can it still get better

  52. Raeesah Sumun

    How do you deal with child neglect?

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