13 Comments

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   Kelly Bratton on January 23, 2022 at 4:11 pm

   My husband didn’t talk to me for over 10 days. It destroyed me. But, since then, I figured out to just act normal like it doesn’t bother me and he stops.

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   Anum Ahmed on January 8, 2022 at 3:59 am

   My question is that if you’re angry at your spouse for misbehaving and you don’t want to shout or scream at them but you have told them the reason for your silence. Is it OK?
   Or there is some better way to communicate my anger??

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   Tasnim Abdullah on January 4, 2022 at 8:36 am

   What if he says he’s just like that. Quiet. And now I’ve become like him, we don’t talk

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   Aamina Ebrahim on January 3, 2022 at 6:40 am

   Sadly these types of spouses don’t change unless they want to.

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   Anisa Asina on January 3, 2022 at 12:56 am

   So how to treat these people?

6. 

   Fatma Telim on January 2, 2022 at 5:37 pm

   So true Haleh
   3days what my grandma said to me

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   Natasha Mahmud on January 2, 2022 at 3:37 pm

   I just wanted to tell you one thing. I love you.

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   Farrukh Sherani on January 2, 2022 at 2:30 pm

   I do give silent treatment. But we ve vowed to eachother that we shall never sleep over our problems n we shall sleep by making up. So he says sorry n problem gets solved

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     Haleh Banani on January 3, 2022 at 9:59 am

     Farrukh Sherani It’s good that you resolve your issues before you sleep. Try to stop the silent treatment and opt for a more mature way to express your frustration.

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   Raeesah Sumun on January 2, 2022 at 2:10 pm

   I have just learnt that the kind person that I had in my life is on a dating site and when questioned about it he belittled me and gave me the silent treatment. Knowing that I have feelings for him, he was on a dating site during the whole time. I am glad that I got to know about it before discussing Nikkah. I do not believe in kind partners existing anymore and he broke me in such a way that I would not probably forgive. But yet I forgave him as a way for me to move forward. I am heartbroken but I believe Allah did whatever is best for me

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     Haleh Banani on January 3, 2022 at 9:58 am

     Raeesah Sumun I’m so sorry for the heartbreak you’ve experienced, but relieved that you discovered this before the nikkah. Many people I work with get this heartbreak 20 years into the marriage.

     It will take time for you to heal. You may want to join my mentorship program to navigate all these emotions http://www.themindfulhearts.com

     Don’t give up on men or marriage. There are good people out there and I pray once you heal, you’ll be granted with a loyal, kind-hearted man.

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       Raeesah Sumun on January 3, 2022 at 5:56 pm

       I have joined the mentorship program and in sha Allah I will find the peace and comfort for my heart. Ameen

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    Jayne Bolger on January 2, 2022 at 1:59 pm

    Very good video