Should you tell your spouse when something bothers you or is it better to overlook?
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Assalamu Alaykum Sister Haleh. So happy I came across this advice algamdulillah
Aslamualikum from Canada
Most required topic. JazakAllah khair for discussing sister.
What happens when you speak up kindly but the spouse makes it a bigger deal
Nabil Yasien Mohamed
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Allah bless you very gud advice
My husband was like that used to correct me for everything for Ex: cook this, cut the fruit , vegetables like this do cooking the way we used to do in my traditional way Wear what I buy for you , do everything my way and I tried 11 years to keep my married life but now it’s going to end
I am REALLY struggling with this Haleh!!!
Bless you
You are so kind for sharing this advice.
سوف أخبر زوجتى كل شئ انها شريكة حياتى
هذا اذا كنت احبها
I think part of the trouble with this comes from partners who aren’t willing to listen, or to at least see things the way the other sees them (and we don’t necessarily have to agree with everything).
Yes ladies, she’s right, we should share. And to add, I guess it helps when we communicate our feelings directly to the point, no beating around the bush, men’s communication styles are different from ours. And husbands who may be reading this, it’s a part of caring for your wives to really listen, because the more they keep it all bottled up, the worse things can get when the bottles explode. Provide them with a safe, un- threatening environment where they can express themselves and feel valued and heard. They’ll most likely return that favor to you when it’s your turn.
Jahara Abellera Solaiman I couldn’t agree more.
What if the spouse thinks that he is right and doesn’t have to change at all
They are all like that
Ana María Elkhessassi They are all like this (great at defecting responsibility back on to you) but they get better after the first 5-10 years of marriage Learning to stick to your point without getting frustrated does help.
We need to be assertive!
That’s how I feel myself, that I take it for a long period of time and I explode once in a while
Oh wow! SubhanaAllah just dealing with an issue right now and needed to hear that
Shukran, stay blessed
Salaam alaykum, from Pretoria South Africa. May Allah bless you. Shukran
وَعَلَيْكُم اَلسَلامُ وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ
Salam alaikun waramotullah wabarakatuh
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Could not have watched this at a better time algamdulilah , been feeling very emo & have no idea how to express my feelings across without breaking down completely shukr for this
It is better to talk about it
Grateful for this advice, mashaallah. it makes so much [common] sense, but it’s helpful to hear it articulated so clearly.
I can’t overlook…even when I promised not talk again…I just blurt it out…
true..but when you speak your mind..they just can’t stand it…
Sabeen
Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh. Nice to listen to your lecture once again
Assalaam to all…from Cape Town, South Africa
Appreciate these guidance..Shukran
You are so beautiful
Yasmine Thaifa
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Good Advice.
Hello
I found when you tell what’s bothering seen as a complaint or your nagging. how do you deal with that
Assalamu alaykum everyone
Salam alaikum waramatuillah wabarakatuhu
How can I mak it Sirat e Mustaqim.
Even if I share how much I should I share???
I think you should talk about it
Oh I need this sooooooo much