Stay at home mom or working mom- which is better?

by Haleh Banani, M.A. | Apr 5, 2021 | Holistic Health and Wellbeing, Motherhood, Parenting and Family | 26 comments

Stay at home mom or working mom- which is better?

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Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.

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26 Comments

Afifa Rashidzada on April 20, 2021 at 9:16 pm

Massouda Arjmand
Houda Sulieman on April 18, 2021 at 10:11 am

Jazakallah Khairan.
Houda Sulieman on April 18, 2021 at 10:11 am

Thank you so much sister. I needed this.
Adz Mahomed on April 14, 2021 at 9:37 pm

Alhamdulilah Allah is great we now have options working online can deal with kids and bring them up also work Alhamdulilah Allah is great 2 in 1 Alhamdulilah sbukr
Ishrut Nusrally on April 9, 2021 at 10:26 pm

Stay at home mum… It also depends… A woman who can balance between her children (family) and work at the same time with the help of Allah due to circumstances
Jessica Abdulkareem on April 5, 2021 at 1:56 pm

Summed it up perfectly! MashaAllah!
Talat Sharmine on April 5, 2021 at 1:11 pm

I gave myself to be with my three kids and was treated so badly by my husband, always been belittled by him.
- Sh Sudozai on April 6, 2021 at 1:38 pm
  
  I can relate Talat.
  - Sh Sudozai on April 6, 2021 at 1:39 pm
    
    And your self esteem is also ruined and you end up in a terrible mother.
Talat Sharmine on April 5, 2021 at 1:09 pm

Most husband wants his wife to work to bring him money plus give him sex and bear his children. Even serve his parents.
- Reshma Begum on April 6, 2021 at 3:04 pm
  
  Yes you totally summed up with all the topics
  - Anne Nurdiani on April 6, 2021 at 7:58 pm
    
    Sad but true
Zubeida Ottley on April 5, 2021 at 12:57 pm

Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi to all those listening to Sister Haleh Banani.
- Fadia Van Witt on April 5, 2021 at 4:37 pm
  
  Wa Alaykum slm Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatu sister Zubeida
Haleh Banani on April 5, 2021 at 12:50 pm

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Nadia Hawa on April 5, 2021 at 12:49 pm

Do what you can, when you can, and together we can make a difference -beautiful! Jazakillah Khair!
Najat Al-shejni on April 5, 2021 at 12:45 pm

So true, we have to put ourselves in each other’s shoes.
Farhan Khan on April 5, 2021 at 12:45 pm

Golden
Jineen Elabed on April 5, 2021 at 12:44 pm

Both not easy that’s my opinion… what makes it hard is we judge each other
Najat Al-shejni on April 5, 2021 at 12:43 pm

Absolutely, sometimes the husband’s job is so demanding and involves so much travel that the wife has to be there for her kids, especially if they are young.
Princess Fazia on April 5, 2021 at 12:42 pm

I had that option and I did exactly that.
Nasheeta Ebrahim on April 5, 2021 at 12:41 pm

Aslm stay home mom
Fatima Mobasshir on April 5, 2021 at 12:41 pm

Exactly, thank you for saying this!!! Amazing
Abdihafiid Sayed - ahmed on April 5, 2021 at 12:40 pm

Mom Stay home.
It’s beautiful for Islam.
Janice Maria on April 5, 2021 at 12:40 pm

WaAlaikom asalam. Neither is better it is what you have to do with your life to help your husband and your family and your children