The most important psychological tool to make your spouse want to spend time with you

by | Dec 14, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 69 comments

The most important psychological tool to make your spouse want to spend time with you

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69 Comments

  1. Mira Khattab

    Best advice that’s free!

  2. Soma Khan

    Over use of mobile

  3. Soma Khan

    I am from pakistan

  4. Annie Lin

    Momina Karapetyan

  5. In Ayah

    oei this is a difficult one, ik dont think woman dont want to smile, they dont want to be miserable, but please dont make this the problem of the woman, what about the men? they have brains also, and feelings..what about him asking the wife, whats wrong, how about him making efforts aswhell, I really feel like the woman is the problem at this moment

  6. Jane Tomlin

    It is very sad to hear what you’re saying. The basis of a marriage seems to always be put on the head of the woman. It’s always what are you as a wife doing that is not making the husband do such and such. Honestly this is very bad advice.
    Marriage is a two way street, a partnership. So many times muslim women are told to put 150% into their relationship and men are not held accountable at all.
    People have been saying these types of things for longer than you’ve been alive. I sincerely wish that you could take a hard look at the advice you’re giving and adjust it to be fair and equitable for women. Men rarely get the short end of the stick. For those men that do, then they need good advice as well.

  7. Nafisa Talukder

    Salam, sister , but it doesn’t work one way only. It should come from both the spouses.

  8. Adz Mahomed

    Yes sister this has to be done from both. Partners but if 1 doesn’t show interest then we have to try also sometime they show their love different like a message or buying dinner or giving you a day off that’s how they show love and other show love by sitting have dinner watch a Movieline my husband doesn’t watch tv so he would show his love like giving me off-from kitchen or taking kids to skates or as a partner we should sit and talk to them and get a better understanding from where their coming from as they work schedule can be difficult boss makes it hell for them but they don’t talk bout it at home so some times we have to be mature IA Allah make it easy for everyone

  9. Farah Khan

    India

  10. Reena Nishil

    Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu..I just feel ANGRY ,ANGRY when I heard this video..if one spouse cud ask for help in finding out what’s wrong with their marriage ,why can’t another do the same if they r craving for some attention and love and not criticisms??why can’t they come out and say ,stop making me unhappy and putting the marriage at risk instead of looking at salespersons who are paid to be smiling at you to be happy?look forward to collegues and friends who r not bound to share ur burdens and are only looking for some light relief just like you?

  11. Hina Farooq

    I’m from Pakistan

  12. Rowzana Mulaffer

    Jazakhallah khair sis always for all your love n knowledge may Allah always bless u for all your efforts

  13. Noor Moussawi

    Jazaki Allah kul khair habibti

  14. Noor Moussawi

    I love you and your words for Th e sake of Allah your ideas and guidance is golden. May Allah bless you

    • Haleh Banani

      Noor Moussawi You’re so sweet! Thank you so much!

  15. Noor Moussawi

    Nice words so important Subhana allah

  16. Noor Moussawi

    Or maybe not enough quiet time

  17. Noor Moussawi

    I think ppl get busy and just take others for granted or don’t focus maybe on their family

  18. Noor Moussawi

    May Allah help everyone with their million tasks. Alhamdulilah

  19. Zubeida Ottley

    Assamu’Aleikum Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh. Missed your past two videos. Seems like you are talking about my hubby. Yah’ Allah that’s me you’re talking about now. Aaww Nooo!!!

  20. Aasiyah Cali

    Shierlou Dela Cruz Jamisola

  21. Rose Welting

    Sometimes you try so hard that you have no more motive to try anymore especially the trying is one sided
    Starts feeling pathetic to try over and over to create something that is not there! Maybe if there was real love in the first place this would work.

    • Juveria Amreen

      Feels exactly the same

  22. Lamya Chraibi

    Salam from Morocco

  23. Fozia Khan

    Asim Siddiqui

  24. Fozia Khan

    Sofia Khan

  25. Shehra Peer

    Spouse priority incorrect…. clap with two hands…

  26. Shehra Peer

    Rings a bell

  27. Shehra Peer

    Wa alaikum salaam

  28. Sarah Singh

    shukran sis

  29. Anna Smith

    Egypt

  30. Lubna Shareef

    We need to learn relationships building

  31. Rayhan Gadmour

    It’s not that simple. I don’t agree

  32. Mariam Abeni Abdul Salam

    Sometimes most of us are just selfish, if we understand each other there won’t be no issues, keep bringing us to life sis, God bless you sis

  33. Nora Zaki

    100 agree ! Smiling is sunna

  34. Rubia Mirza

    Brilliant sound advice dear Sister Haleh Banani I’m sure many couples will benefit… Ameen

  35. Sheeba Wanee

    Very well said

  36. Tayyaba Shahdad

    They r so much indulge in providing for the family that sometimes they don’t realize that the family needs them first and the materials they provide secondary.

  37. Nora Zaki

    They see you as demanding and complaining. Also, we all need some time alone

  38. Faiza Younus

    Keep talking to us

  39. Faiza Younus

    Your words are definitely working in our lives

  40. Faiza Younus

    Really appreciate your efforts sister

  41. Ana María Elkhessassi

    SubhanaAllah sister! Just working on the 5 pillars, right this moment!

  42. Zeinab Mokbel

    alhamdolilah for everything – may Allah help us to become better Muslameen – aaameen

  43. Shazia Ali

    Precious words jazakbAllah

  44. Zeinab Mokbel

    sorry off subject but I adore your wardrobe msA habibti

  45. Riffat Jabeen

    So nice to hear you

  46. Zeinab Mokbel

    Sound advice as usual habibti!

  47. Munira Khan

    Salaams hope u well very motivated jst love yr speach

  48. Tahira Asaf Ali

    Lack of interest in s thing which can involve both of us

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