Two Secrets to Better Relationships

by Haleh Banani, M.A. | Dec 1, 2021 | Holistic Health and Wellbeing, Self-Improvement | 34 comments

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By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.

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34 Comments

Sesinyana Ngobeni on December 27, 2021 at 10:35 am

Thanks Haleh, I always believed people are always trying to annoying me then I react hard
Mariam Tareen on December 26, 2021 at 8:59 am

SubhanAllah sister Haleh, going through a tough time and these 4 minutes have given me so much peace of mind and strength . May Allah bless you and shower you with his best blessings.
Buhari Hafeez on December 25, 2021 at 3:23 am

Help me, I need a wife. A Life partner. Inshallah. I know I will get one from you. Thanks
Delario Robinson on December 23, 2021 at 5:02 pm

Good advice
Mohamed Wurie Bah on December 21, 2021 at 6:08 pm

You are very correct in all that you are saying especially when it happens that we fail to realize that we are not perfect and expect others to be perfect
Keby Adam on December 21, 2021 at 6:02 pm

Will like to meet you
Lorraine Sammut Vargas on December 21, 2021 at 5:44 pm

Hello Haleh, thank you for your wonderful post. I have always strived for this level of peace and love when I am interacting with people in every area of my life but at times the pain of my childhood abuse gets overwhelming and I get taken down to a low level of sadness and hopelessness. This makes it so difficult to want to be with others.
It is difficult to not take things personally or have certain expectations because I do not want to allow myself to be taken advantage of ever again. Thank you for listening
Hayam Elhelbawy on December 7, 2021 at 5:57 pm

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Said Uddin on December 4, 2021 at 11:08 am

I love you islam
Said Uddin on December 4, 2021 at 11:08 am

Mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah
Zaib Un Nisa on December 3, 2021 at 1:14 pm

Ma sha Allah, so beautiful things, I parsnaly aplay this technique alhamdulilah I feel so positive and happiness in side and out side, jazak Allah kheir sister
Kamara Siiy on December 3, 2021 at 10:05 am

DVD good
Anum Mahmood on December 2, 2021 at 11:57 am

So trye thanku
Fatima Catiad Francisco on December 2, 2021 at 6:10 am

Ma shaallah
Engy A. Tantawy on December 2, 2021 at 4:27 am

I want to ask you a question out of the video context. Where do you get your veils? Mashallah I like all of them! Haleh Banani
Sharifar Alabry on December 1, 2021 at 11:36 pm

Ma shaa Allah, love you for Allah’s sake.
Mariyah Yaqoob on December 1, 2021 at 9:28 pm

بارك الله لك my dear Haleh
Sam Mas on December 1, 2021 at 5:49 pm

True thinking positive is best way.
Mariam Maryamti on December 1, 2021 at 2:20 pm

Mashallah, im learning about husnul dhaan and not taking things personally, i never made a connection between the two! Love the outfit and colors. Barakallahu feeky.
- Said Uddin on December 4, 2021 at 11:28 am
  
  Mariam Maryamti mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah mashallah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah MASHALLAH mashallah welcome to Bangladesh
Zineb Zimran on December 1, 2021 at 1:54 pm

Alaa Aboul-Ella exactly what you said!
Caroline Iserhoff on December 1, 2021 at 1:52 pm

Salam wakaum sister my English is not that good
Ilhaan Faarax F on December 1, 2021 at 1:38 pm

I love your hijab sis, so beautiful on you . You are my favorite sister to go to for my relationship. Even my husband listens your videos with me. Jazaakillaah kheyr, may Allah reward you greatly for the good work you are doing for the ummah
Zamzam Binti Mahamed Shek on December 1, 2021 at 1:27 pm

ManshaAllah I’m zamzam from Kenya I love u sis
Samiya Khalid on December 1, 2021 at 1:21 pm

But it’s so hard to not take things personally
- Anat Keidar on December 26, 2021 at 4:51 pm
  
  Why don’t you tell that to Muslim men?
  Bla bla bla…
  - Anat Keidar on December 26, 2021 at 4:53 pm
    
    How about lowering the power of Muslim men over their spouses, daughters and female congregation?
    Is this a self-preserving sermon to avoid banishment, punishment, abuse and honor killing?
    Who the hell certified you to dispense advice? Are you a licensed therapist?
Habib Saad on December 1, 2021 at 1:18 pm

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa batakatuhu my sister
Shopeyin Rukayat on December 1, 2021 at 1:16 pm

Jazaki llahu khairan ma for this admonishing.
Jasmina Besic on December 1, 2021 at 1:14 pm

Assalamwalekum.
- AH Bhatti on December 26, 2021 at 6:36 am
  
  Wa Alaikumsalam
Maseeha MH Ebrahim on December 1, 2021 at 1:14 pm
Nabila Shadab Mulla on December 1, 2021 at 1:13 pm

Assalamwalekum!
Maseeha MH Ebrahim on December 1, 2021 at 1:10 pm

May Allah Make it easy for everyone