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JazaakAllah khair khatheeran sister bela..parents need lot of motivation and advice during challenging times
Allah SWT is our gaurdian ..He will surely help us all challenges
We as parents has to show graceful behaviour for sure
BaarakAllah sister Haleh
A nice advice..a need of hour for all parents
Ask lot of dua dears..May Allah SWT safegaurd our children from all evil and grant them best life in this world and aakhira
May parents have compassion always for dear children
Much needed today, i have stopped talking to my kids since long back because they don’t make effort and time to make good relations with me
I love when hala laughs and says you can’t do that lol I’ve told a lotta ppl this you can’t sorry and if you do you will have bigger problems
Never quit
Dama Diiriye
Maskiin Tii Ilaahay such a wonderful advice Maa Shaa Allah Nay Allah protect all our children Txs Abaayo
U very welcome abaayo
Dama Diiriye Amiin yaa rabi
I love Haleh she keeps it real
Thank you
I so need this right now
Ma sha Allah… Jazakallah khairan for the guidance…
Jazak Allah khair my dear sis for this beautiful n very helpful msg .Alhamdoulillah
Very much needed. Raising teenagers is the biggest challenge and test. It takes many conflicts and talks and tears and anger, inshallah there is liģht at the end of the tunnel if we persist and dont give up on our kids. They eventually reach a better level of maturity where they realize what you’ve been fighting for is so important. The past 3 years has been an internal hell, mostly internal, because we also have a 9 year old, so we tried not to be so visible with our conflicts with our teen. All I know is that it does get better and the most important thing is to make sure your teen knows that you love them no matter what-because things can get fixed, behaviours can change, but if they feel you have disconnected from them, you’ve lost ur job, you will reduce ur chances of ever helping them to be a better being. Thank you Haleh for putting this out.
Jazakum Allah khayr kathir dear Sis Haleh
You are absolutely right
Razia Banon
Nazima Kureemun Alhamdoulillah n thank you so much my dearest sis . I feel so good just by listening to her voice Ma Sha Allah . Every words she has said is like she can feel the pain of the parents .Very helpful Subhan Allah .Jazak Allah Naz
Ameeeen
guys make them work for their things has help me alot dont give them iphone at age 10 my goodness
i had a police tell my daughter you are over 18 u dont have to stay with your parents and she left that day for almost 2 years. because she took my car and wrecked it when i came home i thought car was stolen because she had no DL. so instead of accountability. she is back in the home now because her boyfriend bring her back they were moving out of state. I didnt kick her out she left because of laws here. when i was her age i accidently hit my neighbor car i paid 750 for damages next day i love her but she is a human and i am no longer her ATM because she keeps me at arms length. she doesnt help in the home so i told her if you cannot do her part in the home she can uber to work. it works i didnt take her to work she started her chores 2 months waiting for her to clean her bathroom she is a woman needs to be clean others use that bathroom at times. i dont give up on her but i do not rescue her wrong doing.
u can put in islamic school makes no difference they still have minds guys
You said what Not to do. How about what to do? How to face it? How to deal with it?
Sister how about children in 30s and 40s? If they do disrespect and doesnt care. Sometime parents end of loosing everything in process. Parents get old and they have no say or value in children’s lives. Only option left with parents to make dua for hidayah
Jazak Allah Sister, you are really addressing something so mothers are going through. Pain is unspoken
Assalamualaikum wa Rehmatullahe Wa Barakatuh dearest hardworking people and JazakAllaah khairan kaseera dearest Haleh Banani…
.. Yes …it is as heart breaking as it is ….all the worry has to be used to make duas and accepting that only Allaah guides whom and when He wills …..
After setting the good example and an appropriate level of influence which is age and conditions appropriate …nothing much is left in the common experience that should be done as pushing someone too frequent or too harshly or cutting ties can make them really off track . Avoiding them out of sadness for three days is allowed as its sunnah …
Allaah consoled the prophet(saw) and reminded him that only Allaah is in all control ….
Hope from Allaah till the last breath o..Allaah make our family coolness of our eyes and make us the leader of spouses and children who are conscious of Allaah …
My family is d
Jazk Allah khair
Just amazing info and advice,May the almighty grant u paradise and protection from hell.
JazakAllah Khair habibti
May Allah SWT reward you.
Work with them and don’t loose your child.
A million thank yous!!!!
Brilliant teaching fir our Muslim parents.. totally apreciate YOU!!!
Sandra Labadia Thank you for your sweet words!
Haleh Banani you are
an Excellent Therapist, Counsultant and Mother,
Masha^Allah
Haleh,,
Ameen
Thanks alot
Sukurat Oyindamola
Masha Allah ameen very wel said
Thank u soo much sister haleh .. may allah reward u immensely for ur work. U r a blessing t the ummah
Sakina Ahmed Ameen ya rab! Jazakillah Khair!
What would the solution beee?
Not at all to quit. U are a parent a guardian yes a lifetime responsibility
Just on point. Jazxakillah khair
May Allah guide and protect us.
So what do we do.?
Its tiring raising kids
Subhanallah…
Your advice is so much appreciated, Sis
My house is on fire every day rescue me sister
Munawara Hussen Esmael I’m so sorry to hear that. May Allah ease your heart and put out the fire in your home & grant you tranquility.
Amiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin Allahuma Amiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin
Can you please educate us on this topic / issues ! I personally need a lot of advice and guidance and help on this! Please
Maa Shaa Allah Tabarakallah May Allah protect you and bless you sister you are just speaking from my mind
Mind
Sister it is just you are talking from my
Masha allaah….
Subaghanallah so true never give up on your child… I’m talking about experience and family support especially the other siblings are very important Alhamdullilah
How to deal only …wanted to hear more on hows to…Inshallah
Subghaanallah beautiful words always
Assalamualaikum
Jazak Allah Khaira , excellent tips
I want to kno more about how to make the children to be closer with us
Very useful sister..
Jazakallahu khairan sis Haleh
SubanAllah much needed to hear ! JazakAllahu Khairan katheeran dearest sister ..
Olga Ramahi
How to convince the father to fulfill the children wishes
Asalaam aleiyqum, May Allah SWT reward you!! We need this talk!
Aameen ya rabbi
Subhan Allah so true that’s the time when they need empathy!
What should I do when my child refuses to pray? Attend Quran classes???? Practice Islam????? I talk and have discussions and try to encourage. I don’t want to enforce but it breaks my heart
Yes ..my sister it is as heart breaking as it is ….all the worry has to be used to make duas and accepting that only Allaah guides whom and when He wills …..
Roma Khan thank you so much for this advice. I also have resorted to duas and asked SWT to guide me and my children
May Allaah make it easy for us to be rightly guided
Asmaa El-kilany the less you get angry the more they come to you
MashaaAllah Tabarak sister Haleh may Allah reward for the beautiful reminder.
Yup
Amen, May Allah accept on behalf of all parents.
Amira Shref
I agree totally with you sister .subhan Allah
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