How to be a supportive spouse during difficult times
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Exactly crying is not be with iman or no Iman thanks for sharing this
Every time you talk about your husband is like you got married yesterday . We can feel the love you got for each other
Maya Hadie mashaAllah tabarakAllah we’ve worked hard to keep the love alive.
You’re lucky. Some don’t have this luxury!
Really? Hug? No I want to be left alone!!!!
May Allah grant you sabr
So sorry you lost your mom.
I lost my mom on 12/12/19. Heartbroken
I want to hug you
Inna Lila hi wa inna ilaihi raajioon
I love you sweetheart
Inna lillaahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon
InnaliAllahi wainnailaihi rajeooon…
Dear this is such a lovely talk. JazakAllah
May Allah swt grant her jannah al firdaws and grant u all sabr
May Allah grant you sabr in these difficult times.
Maasha Allah.
Furqan Merchant
Can I ask what you do when your husband hides away whenever something stressful comes along or when you are going through a calamity and he spends most of his time sleeping saying he can’t help it if he is tired but it’s clearly escapism rather than being supportive.
Asalam walikum
So Sorry for your loss
1. Be Present. Emotional available. Give focus, listen and full attention to your spouse.
2. Never ever let a women cry by herself. Tips for husband. Never give solution or what do you want her to do. If she stay, she want to be alone, she is uniquely created that way if not, just be there for her.
3. Don’t shut someone up because they are crying. Allowing that person to express their feelings like crying. After that it will be healing in their heart. Recognize that feeling.
4. Crying is not sign of weak imaan.
5. Reminds and says things like Allah loves you.
6. Take a break. If your spouse in state in grieving, give them a support. Take them to walk etc.
7. Change the environment in house.
8. Take action. Make effort to make your spouse happier. During, challenging time inshaAllah you will see, each of you, make efforts for each other through out the journey.
May Allah Grant her junnat tul perdos
Tamanna Tahsin
Sumaya Tasneem English post.:(
So sorry for your mom.
Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Rajion May Allaah give her higher place in Jannatul Firdos
Allah yarhamha
Iskufilan Abdinasir
I love you allot you talk same like my aunts
Allah yarham ha
So sorry to hear of your loss. May she be in the highest heaven.
Asalaamu alaykum sister, I’m sorry for your loss. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi ra’ jioun. I appreciate your videos and may Allah reward you greatly for your efforts. The more I listen to your videos the more I think about my recent divorce. When you speak of the husband being next to his wife when she. Cries, I think about the many times I tried doing that and she would run to the restroom and lock herself in and cry/yell and scream how much she hated me. I couldn’t understand her. If it wasn’t the bathroom she lock herself in the bedroom and cry. The tears of hers were more than I could explain. She didn’t want the marriage so I divorced her. It has even been 2/3 of year since our divorce and she called and hung up on me last Friday. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want her immaturity and games. My daughter is 10 years younger and never disrespected me the way she has.
Inna lillahi wa Inna Ilayhi rajoon may Allah Grant her jannahtul firdous
May Allah grant your mother jannat
So sorry to hear about your mom, may Allah place in Jannah!!
May Allah SWT magnify your reward with lot goodness for all your patience and grant your mom jannathul firdaus..truly she has gone through a lot..May Allah SWT grant maghfirah and great Rahma Ameen
Sister it takes huge courage to come today and give this lecture. I don’t know how you did it, I would have broken down. You are so amazing really and ma shallah so strong, May Allah increase you inshallah May Allah yirhamha May Allah increase your ranks for this lecture right after what you went through. May every word you said be such a huge blessing and increase for you and your mom
Noor Moussawi Jazakillah Khair for your thoughtful message. I really appreciate it. We can’t stop doing good just because we are tested. Alhamdulillah. It’s time to increase our good deeds. My mom inspired me to give and leave an impact. May Allah accept me as her sadaqa jareya.
Noor Moussawi السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un. Allah swt give you all sabr in this difficult time.
May Allah grant her al jannah firdaus without reckoning.. my condolences to you and your family..jazak Allah Khair for this video
Assalamu’alaikum, I’m sorry for your loss. Your emotions make you human and has nothing to do with your Iman. Moms are beautiful gifts from Allah. It was beautiful of Allah to let you keep her with you here even if there were miles between you. Memories will keep her in your mind and love between you will stay and keep in your heart. Blessing of peace and solace I pray from Allah for you today and always. 🤍🤍
May Allah give you courage and patience .
Inna Lillah.wa innaillahi Rajiun .may Allah bless her with the highest ranks in jannatul firdus. Ameen
Inna lillahi wa Inna ilaihi raajewoon sister
Allah yerhamha, wa Allah u barrik feeky wa yahfadhik
We have to live the moment of sadness so we can able to pass it with time it’s natural
Allah yirhamha sister. May ALLAH strengthen you and put her in Jenna
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Asslam o alikum sister i send you message on Facebook messenger. Please reply me if you can . Thanks.may Allah give you jaza.
Thinking of you at this difficult time. Love and hugs for you
May Allah grant her Aljanat Fridaus and grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.
Salaam sis . May Allah continue to grant you the strength during this sad time.
So sorry for your loss. MA you are so strong and setting a great example for everyone.
May Allah take her the highest jannah. Ameen yaa Rabi
Assalamualikum, may allah ease your heart and give you sabr.
May Allah bless you sister Haleh, your husband and your family. Masha’Allah, it was nice seeing you today on the video and know that you’re doing fine. May Allah have mercy on your mom and give her janna alfirdous and elevate her to higher levels in janna from all that suffering that she went through. We’ll keep you and her in our dua’a, insha’Allah.
Jazakillah. May Allah give you more strenght.
May Allah ease your heart sister Haleh xxx
Salam alaykum
Sister i have sent u a message , can u plz answer
Inna lillahi wa inna elaihi rajioon. May Allah swt grant your mum the highest station in Jannat al Firdous and grant you and your family sabar jameel. Allahuma ameen.
May Allah bless your the highest level of Jannaha
So glad to see you and so humbled to know you’re being so strong during this time. May Allah grant you peace in those who are gone and those who are here still loving you.
Uzma Jafri Alhamdulillah I’m glad I’m feeling better today. It was an emotional weekend SubhanAllah. Thank you for your kind words.
May Allah grant your mother Jannah al Firdaus.
May Allah continue to comfort you
So sorry
May Allah bless your husband
Sending you love and duas
ASA Sister, I’m so sorry for you
Loss..May Allah grant your mother Jannah. Ameen
Reem Naeim