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Humans and feelings are among the most complicated things that might be difficult to comprehend at times. Unfortunately, marriages fall into this category as well, and many individuals choose the idea of marriage with the expectation that everything would be flawless and joyful! However, this is not the norm; numerous changes and sacrifices must be made for the marriage to succeed. Although every man wants to win in marriage, very few were trained to succeed in heart affairs. And it is not their fault. Men are trained to be robust to confront life, but they are entirely clueless when it comes to love. So, as promised, I will be forthright and tell you how to win your wife’s heart from a woman’s viewpoint. 

Winning your wife back

Women differ from men as they are more in touch with their feelings. It is not a lie to state that winning your wife back is far simpler than getting your husband. If you want to win back your wife’s love and trust, the following suggestions may be helpful! 

Validate Her Feelings:

The first step is to listen to your wife. I didn’t intend to imply that you should obey every instruction she gives. But if you want to win your wife’s heart, you must listen to her heart. Value her feelings and ideas. Trust it or not, women are more aware of what their relationships demand and frequently offer suggestions on how to improve them. So, taking the time to listen to your wife genuinely can assist you in determining the root of the conflict. Hence, throw your ego aside and never be defensive. Instead, listen to her, solicit her feedback, and be truthful about your observations. Continue doing this once a week or maybe once every month; the more you do it, the simpler it will be for your wife to communicate her thoughts and needs.

Share Your Feelings:

A guy should let his wife see into his heart. You must be willing to be vulnerable in front of her. Men cannot converse with their spouses in the same way that they would with their male friends. To communicate effectively, women demand empathy, kindness, openness, and sincerity. Your wife wants to know everything about your day or life. Therefore, sharing everything with her is the best approach to include her and show her respect. Tell them about your day or your darkest childhood memory; they want to know everything. 

Offer Them a Helping Hand:

There is plenty of reasons for stress in a day and period when most couples have both husband and wife working. Wives have obligations at home in addition to their professional commitments. What can you offer? Anything you can think of to ease her weight would suffice. Fold her clothes, fill her gas tank, prepare supper, clean up, or assist the children with their schoolwork. Offering your help may not take much of your time, yet it may make a significant difference in her day. Let her feel that you stand by her side, and she has you here. 

Appreciate Her:

Believe me when I say that your wife wants to know how you feel about her. Women are always concerned about whether or not they are good enough. The nicest praises are typically the unexpected ones. So, anytime you have a good thought about your wife, don’t let it stay inside. Appreciate her for the smallest of things she has been doing, be it taking care of your children or just being there for you. The little appreciation can light up her day, and she may feel as you value her. Compliment her when she has dressed well, or you like anything about her. Women love receiving compliments, and it can push them to put more effort into the relationship. 

Enlighten Her World:

Just like when you desire anything, you pay attention to its upkeep, such as your car or home. Marriage is no exception. You must make an effort to reintroduce empathy and devotion into your relationship. Make an effort to make her feel unique, cherished, cared for, and respected. Make her fall back in love with you once again. Bring her flowers, write poetry, and do whatever it takes to attract her. Tell her how much you adore her and just how far you are willing to go to fix things with her. If you are wondering how to win the heart of a woman, here it is. Make her feel unique so that she understands you do not take the connection for granted because you should not. If you haven’t done anything to show her how wonderful she has been in the last several months, now could be the moment. It doesn’t have to be an expensive item; instead, try something easy that will enlighten her day. A cute text or a compliment can do wonders trust me. 

There are more other ways if you ask that how to win your wife’s heart. If you want to know more about relationships and make them better, you can visit the website. A free PDF is also available and a video series for tons of knowledge. May Allah makes it easy for all of us, Insha’Allah. 

Tell me what you have done in the past that has made your wife happy? And if you are a wife, tell me what your husband has done that has made your day? I would love to know. 

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By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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16 Comments

  1. Samuel Mathieson

    Meriam I love you and thank you for all the effort you make and the support you give. I can’t wait to make you smile with a brand new car inshalla

  2. Razik Siadh

    Assalamu alaikum

  3. Julie Mccarthy

    Haa I am on my own because he just didn’t understand me

  4. Mariam Jama

    My he is best of the best for cooking but not the best of the best for his kids inshallah

  5. Mariam Maryamti

    Not enough men are on here to get this tip lol

    • Bin Othman

      Mariam Maryamti nah we are here to get the tips

  6. Erum Ashar

    He is too busy on phone

  7. Mariam Jama

    Mashallah this nice u doing sister Jazaykallah kharain habibti

  8. Erum Ashar

    How to avoid

  9. Jarna Hall

    Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatuillahi wa barakatuhu

  10. Erum Ashar

    In sharing how do we about gheeba or backbiting

  11. Jarna Hall

    Hard to get their attention

  12. Mariam Jama

    As salam alaykum sister and everyone

  13. Kylani Sura

    Selam alykoum

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