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The top 3 reasons why children misbehave and what to do about them.

by | Nov 24, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality, Parenting and Family | 71 comments

Why do children misbehave?

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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71 Comments

  1. Naira Fasih

    Thank you so much I loved your advice, it’s helped and made us realise that we as parents have a lot of work to do too internally. MA SHA ALLAH May ALLAH always keep you blessed

  2. Abe Abdul

    Great points. Thanks

  3. Munira Khan

    W salaams jst love 2 hear what say

  4. Carla Lou-Anna

    Set your rules and stick to the consequences

  5. Carla Lou-Anna

    Salaam alaikum sister from Canada

  6. Hanah Mas Raudah

    Waalaikumsalam wbt,from Kuala Krai,Kelantan,Malaysia.

  7. Mobina Az

    Ur brilliant thank you fr the insight

  8. Lingzi Ding

    Omar Elsawaf

  9. Zarghuna Khan

    Jazakallahi khearan kasera !!

  10. SAlwa Wairimu

    Shukran may Allah almighty reword you and your family

  11. Zarghuna Khan

    Yes I always asks this question from myself and my hubby and I know it’s something in us not in them generally !!

  12. Fiza Usman

    Walykmsalam

  13. Sadia Latif

    Subhan Allah.. uv put it so perfectly 🙂 jazakAllah for the lovely reminder

  14. Fatma Mohamed

    Ayat Sharaf Hajar Helen Dekker Amira Shref

  15. Eman Asfour

    Nita Dalo

  16. Soha Ahmed

    Walaikumsalam wrwb from sydney

  17. Mariam Khodr

    I’m a teacher myself and what you mentioned about the teacher-parent relationship and communication is so vital

  18. Ayesha Mohd

    Asra Husain

  19. Cathy Tibi

    Nahlah Al-Hallak

  20. Rubana Bahar Priti

    SubhanAllah so important topic to talk about. May Allah SWT make parenting easy for us and guide our kids towards His chosen path.

  21. Tooba Ahmed

    Attif Iqbal

  22. Suj Khayum

    Ameen Yaa Rabb. JAZAKA ALLAH KHAIRAN

  23. Inji El Demiry

    Nadine ElMarsafy , Ghada Fahmy

  24. Tahsina Nazin

    Jazak Allahu Khairan

  25. Inji El Demiry

    Asalam Alukim we rahmet Allah we barakahtoh from Egypt

  26. Rizwan Razi Razi

    With mental health, be aware of those causing you stress, anxiety, and depression. Be aware also of activities that lead to anxiety, depression, or any issues of mental health. Try your best not to overthink or worry. Relax and take deep breaths. This year has been difficult. Stay strong and do your best to keep a good attitude.

    • Sabira Hajdarovic

      Rizwan Razi Razi excellent advice

  27. Fathima Sheik Mohideen

    I love you Haleh ..May Allah SWT raise your levels in jannah and accept all your efforts Ameen

  28. Humera Hashmi

    Aameen Allahumma Aameen

  29. Alisha Ghafari

    Jazzakh’Allah khairun dear ukhti

  30. Munawara Hussen Esmael

    Amiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin Allahuma Amiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiin

  31. Fatima Zb

    Interesting previous generations were Vampent insecurities, not all but many parents of that time all across the world

  32. Fathima Sheik Mohideen

    Esp.children need our utmost love care and correct guidance

  33. Humera Hashmi

    All the learning is useless when you can’t apply in your daily lives because you have ppl in your family who wouldn’t let you…who would bring your kids down for even petty things as not picking up their toys immediately after they’ve finished playing.

    • Sameera Mirza

      Humera Hashmi true..

    • Merveille Dici

      Dear Helen, many thanks for all your wonderfull help.May Allah rewards.
      Could you please advise when will the Mindfulhrearts will open please for us to join at the soonest at a much needed time and indicate the pricing please. Jazakhallakhair.

  34. Nagihan Yaman

    Salaam, any book you can recommend for purification of the heart or any course that we can follow.

    • Haleh Banani

      Nagihan Yaman Salam, there is a bonus segment on purification of the heart based on Sheikh Hamza Yusuf’s book on The Mindful Hearts Academy done by my dear friend Hosai Mojaddidi.
      http://Www.themindfulhearts.com

      • Nagihan Yaman

        Haleh Banani Thank you.

  35. Fathima Sheik Mohideen

    I agree with you 100%
    Self purification and good behaviour changes the whole scene

  36. Bint'e Islam

    How we can work on our self?

  37. Sumaira Haseeb

    May Allah swt help me out

  38. Sumaira Haseeb

    I really want to work on myself

  39. Humera Hashmi

    What to do when as a parent one is trying one’s best, and the other individuals in their family interfere and make it difficult for both the kids and parents?

    • Roma Khan

      A question very pertinent and commonly arising

  40. Fatima Zb

    Yes, parents with codependencys become huge problems for their kids and so on

  41. Munawara Hussen Esmael

    Maa Shaa Allah Tabarakallah thank you for sharing May Allah bless you goodness

  42. Wahid Wahiid

    Doesn’t how you discipline your kids at home influence how they behave outside the home?

    • Humera Hashmi

      Not always, some behave differently at home and schools.

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