Who doesn’t adore a husband who prioritizes her or goes out of his way for her? How do you picture your connection with your spouse where he does value you? As women, we always want to have a solid emotional connection with our partners at all times. We always want a relationship where our partner genuinely cares for and loves us wholeheartedly. You’re probably thinking how in the world you can have a relationship where he hurries home from work to spend quality time with you? Of course, this is all dependent on how you make him feel while he is with you. So if you’re seeking advice on how to win your husband’s heart, you’ve come to the perfect spot.
HOW TO WIN YOUR HUSBAND’S HEART?
UNDIVIDED ATTENTION:
Men, unlike women, do not expect constant attention, but they do seek it when you have a lot on your schedule. I understand you can’t give him your full attention all of the time, but he deserves a little something every day. Believe me or not, your relationship needs to thrive.
Instead of going for your phone first thing in the morning to see what emails arrived overnight, reach over to your spouse. How frequently do you listen to him while aimlessly scrolling on your phone? I bet you never do, and he, like most guys, does not whine or throw tantrums to get your attention. Trust me when I say that it is your responsibility to make him feel like he is the most valued person in the world to you. Recognizing the necessity of paying attention to your spouse will make a world of difference in your relationship with him and help you win your husband back.
BEING APPRECIATIVE:
When was the last time you went out of your way to win your husband’s heart and make him feel esteemed and appreciated? Of course, honey, your partner deserves to be appreciated for working all day to meet your needs. But, unfortunately, the most common complaint from men is that their wives do not thank them, even though they are handling things to the best of their abilities.
Never ever make them feel as if they are taken for granted. Remember to thank your spouse even if they just do you tiny favors throughout the day. The gratitude you exhibit will undoubtedly pierce his heart and will make your husband love you more.
BE RESPECTIVE TO HIM:
Respect between spouses is essential for a successful and lasting marriage. Respect extends beyond simply being polite to your husband. Respect may take various forms, such as honoring his desires, speaking politely (even while furious), and avoiding disagreements.
Why is your spouse so concerned about your respect? Men seek respect and honor, but women seek love, passion, and trust in a relationship. If you respect him, he will undoubtedly love you in return, which is one of the easiest ways to win his heart. In addition, your respect for your husband will for sure inspire him to carry out his responsibilities. Men want to be respected by their spouses more than anything else. When you respect him, it shows that you have faith in him. “Respect will not exist until trust exists first,” and this is obvious.
RESPECT HIS FAMILY AS WELL:
How you behave with your family will definitely have an influence on your relationship. If you genuinely want to win his heart, find methods to connect with his family, respect them, and treat them as you would like him to treat yours.
Speaking against his family and cutting off with them might damage a connection between you and will have a harmful influence on the bond that Allah has blessed you with regardless of what you do. As long as you are married, you will have to deal with each other’s family, therefore respect and love your in-laws. May Allah pours the never-ending respect for our spouses in our hearts, Insha’Allah.
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I’d want to know whether you’ve ever used any of these tactics to win your spouse’s heart, and if so, how well they worked for you. Have you noticed any differences? What challenges do you face in your relationship? Please share your experience; we’re all here to inspire one another. If you want to read more Relationship blogs then explore our Relationship & Marriage category.
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Hallowslova
Quality time.
Assalam alaykum sister Haleh. Wonderful tips for good relationship
did all this he took advantage of it could not give back got tired and he got tired when i asked for it back not out of expectations but he should do the same to us woman he left telling me he doesnt have to do this to wives
I have applied all of that but some in-laws are just good to you momentarily
In most cases even having a good relationship with the in-laws doesn’t mean anything for the husbands because those in-laws would expect more and more and if you can’t even cater to them once then they start complaining about you to the husbands and the husband turns against you and treats you badly
He would ignore me whenever he likes
My husband would complain when I cook for my family but he would never say anything when I cook for his family which is more than what I do for my family
Assalam alaikum sister Haleh. Wonderful talk and tips to maintain and prioritize the relationship and maintain for good.
If I man can fall in love with me without knowing me
He can fall out of love while he knows all about me!
So what I mean is
Men love or don’t love us, it is a choice they make!
Most of the time it has nothing to do what we do or don’t!
I have seen many people who tried so hard so so hard to hold on to a man, no matter what they did or changed the man wouldn’t be happy
So
I say loving my self and letting my husband know while I love him very much, I can live with or without him
And will give him a better picture of our relationship
But that is just my opinion
It worked for me
Because we are still married 21 years now
May Allah show us what is best for all of us
Aamiin
If he plays with evil spirit what can I do
aoa luv yr video sis but this time if u apprciate this person becomes arrogant
Mahmoud Jaseem عليكم اسلام
Assalamualaikum sister halea.
Masha Allah
Salaam
Maa Shaa Allah. That’s a good start
But sometime men only want take and tbey r not giving
You are very correct, Undivided attention
Thank you! Ameen
Thank you for these amazing reminders!
It’s my first time to watch you I really appreciate this video because it ‘s exactly what I need right now thank you
respect him
Ameen ameen ameen
Ameen
Be respectful and be patient. This has worked for me
I love my husband and respect him. We don’t fight in public, we don’t share personal things on social media. We make financial decisions together.
I make sure he has ice in his cooler, water, hydration. He works in hvac services so he is literally in the sun to take care of us at home. Allah make it easy for him and us always. I always put him first when it comes to family ties. He is our sustainer by the will of Allah and to Allah we pray for his safety and success. Don’t get me wrong, I am home cooking cleaning abs what not. But he also understands this and NEVER complains about anything and is the best about any issue. If we have a discord, we handle in in private.
All the best.
I am not married but this is good advice and I love your posts
Christi Lynn I’m glad you’re benefitting!
Never stop flirting with your husband.
This is good to keep them wrapped around
Zaheeda Cassim NEVER! We play all the time and make jokes. Love him to the moon.
FitMom Meals Good. Masha Allah.. I’m flirting for 30 years now. Alhamdullilah
Zaheeda Cassim awesome
Asalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakutuh
Jzake Allah kayra
hello sister
Always make your husband feel that he is needed and make an effort to look fresh when he comes home. You will receive what you give inshaa Allah.
Zaheeda Cassim thank you I will work on the fresh… inshallah I’ve gained a bit after third baby
FitMom Meals You can still look and smell fresh if you don’t smell like the food you cooked and look like you’ve been milking cows all day then he is not going to notice your weight gain. But Inshaa Allah you will feel encouraged to work on that too.. Enjoy being married.
Assalamu Alaikum
If we want to see change we need to be that change first.
What are some ways to comfort my husband when he is stressed out?
Jennel Mckennie – Sohm I try to talk to him and put our blessings into perspective. We forget sometimes that EVERYTHING is by the will of Allah. I tell my husband just relax Alhamdulilah for anything in our way, it’s stoping you from another worse situation maybe. Allah is the most merciful and Kind. Breathe ans make Dua.
Rahim Rony নতুন শিষ্যের জন্য
Jzk Allah my dear sister ⚘⚘ Masha Allah ! Barakallah
I love your videos 🙂 They are so helpful. Thank you!
Jennel Mckennie – Sohm Alhamdulillah! You’re so welcome!