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Young Couple Outsmart Marriage Problems! Find Out How.

by | Oct 18, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 80 comments

Usually, couples from different countries who get married at a very young age face many problems and challenges. This young couple was committed to making it work against all odds, masha’Allah tabarak Allah!

Instead of being obsessed with wedding plans Yasmeen Baajour and Asim Gazi spent their time and energy learning to have a healthy relationship by taking the “5 Pillars of Marriage” program. They learned transformative skills and how to avoid pitfalls that would ensure their marriage remains strong.

Great marriages don’t just happen! It’s about learning the most effective marriage skills and having the right mindset. Love is essential, but it only takes you so far. You need a practical, step-by-step approach to resolving conflict and effective communication.

Instead of trying to wing it, figure it out on their own or leave it to chance, Yasmin and Asim were proactive. They’ve made sure they’re equipped and ready to make their marriage thrive and their love last mashaAllah tabarakAllah. Be like Yasmeen and Asim. Invest in your marriage and ensure your success!

May Allah bless their union and May they be an example for the youth!

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By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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80 Comments

  1. Bayan Aziz

    ما شاء الله

  2. Ghadija Rawat

    Mashallah. May their union be blessed always Inshallah

  3. Sahabuddin Mondal

    Sahabuddin Mondal 966 54 185 0864 kolmi

  4. Eman Elsheikh

    Masha Allah tabarak Allah. Bless all your efforts Ameen

  5. Azyma Ansari

    ماشاء اللہ

  6. Abdut Toab

    Which time ?

  7. Amreen Khan

    Aswk sister Haleh I attended ur workshop n that specific day I was gng through a trouble in my married life n I applied ur 5 pillars so it really worked

  8. Ozi Hire Car

    Yes if both understand try to help each other inshaAllah every thing going good

  9. Ilhaan Faarax F

    MashaAllah congratulations

  10. Shahina Khanom

    Alhamdulillah it’s great it worked for them. But marriage courses aren’t for everybody.
    There are loads of people who have been happily married for 20+years..without going to any marriage course, counselling etc… Communication is a basic skill all marriages need..

    • Dupe Ogun

      I agree that communication skills are basic skills all marriages need but,let’s not forget that what you say may not be what others hear. Plus, it’s more delicate when it comes to marriage as staying together brings about expectations and subtle demand for compromise

      How to compromise without feeling used is where a third party engagement like training comes in as long as it’s rooted in the teaching of Islam.

      Most times people have long years of marriage because one partner had decided to accept the compromise role, see their marriage as their identity, transfer the essence of their marriage to care for their children amongst others possible reasons.

      So, a long marriage with communication between spouse doesn’t equal happy marriage except where the desire to accommodate each other is almost equal.

      • Ramsha Suhail

        Shahina Khanom I disagree completely. Marital and premarital education should be mandatory for all. It is the same like primary, secondary education. Education is light, my dear. And we all need light from those who have successfully walked the path before us to help guide us home. To ourselves. To heaven on earth within our hearts. May Allah Pardon us for our shortcomings. Ameen

        • Shahina Khanom

          Dupe Ogun marriage is a worship to Allah swt. So if the entire practice of marriage, roles and responsibilities have to be based on sharia, the view point has to be seeking the pleasure of Allah swt and therefore actions for men and women has to be measured by reward and punishment ie we fulllfill our roles because it pleases Allah swt hence reward, neglecting those roles angers Allah swt.. Therfore punishment is linked to it..

          We have a problem in our communities due to the influence of culture and a huge influence of Western culture and view point.. Ie individualism, I, myself and me. Coupled with high expectations and keeping up with the Jones… And the little aspects of Islam people may apply in these marriages are when they have issues but the actual marriage isn’t cemented on or by the sharia.. Hence its asking for problems.

          Happy marriage is knowing you fulfill your responsibilities knowing Allah swt is happy, that’s for both men and women.. That doesn’t mean equal role.

          Muhammad (saw) did not have the same role as Khadijah (RA).. She compromised on a lot.. In the western view point that would be seen negatively. But from the Islamic point of view its viewed so highly and praised worthy.. Where by Allah swt granted her jannah tul firdous. And that is the goal ultimately for all Muslims.

          We don’t here about Khadijah RA moaning about fulfilling her roles, nor do we hear the prophet complaining about his.. Because the end goal is jannah.

          The issue at hand is understanding the marriages all of it from Islam.. And stripping away anything that is not from Islam.. With spouses understanding their roles, responsibilities, love, compassion, communication etc

          Equally understanding the society its impact on marriage, the dangers of adopting a Western measure etc

          Keeping in mind when differences arise in the marriages.. Those issues or problems or differences are equally resolved by the quran and sunnah.

  11. Ayana Gani

    Mansha Allah…

  12. Sakinah Abdul- Jaleel

    Imron A Jaleel Serah Ardoin Anas Hobbs Mikial Hobbs Shaakirah Abdul Jaleel Moe NoYolo

  13. Sarwoar Ahmed

    This post is a bit confusing, what is meant by “different countries”?

  14. Brilliance Venus

    May Allah bless your union… And grant you both patience to persevere…it can get pretty challenging at times…….be mindful of interference from others….my hubby and I have lived it.. 40 years Alhamdulillah

  15. Shereen Alankar

    Mashallah and congratulations to them both . May their love stay as strong as their marriage and stand the test of time for many years of happiness to come

  16. Seniha Seniha

    “Usually couples from different countries who get married very young have many problems” are you referring to interracial couples?

  17. Samina Shahid

    Mashallah amazing couple so sweet

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  19. Noor Moussawi

    May Allah swt protect you both and put baraka and noor in your lives and family

  20. Bilal Bilal

    Masha allah

  21. Md Sohel

    Nice

  22. Nayaz Pasha

    Nayaz Pasha

  23. Sul Tana
  24. Abdul Kalam

    Alhamdulillah Oman Muscat India

  25. Irfan Iqbal

    Walakumslam

  26. AR Javeed

    Hi

  27. Emran Sk

    Amienn

  28. Abdul Cadir

    Aasif Aadhil take the course asap

  29. Maryam Bennett

    The links for the e-book and class are not working

  30. Shamim Ahamad

    Best of luck and pray for bright future

  31. Lasmini

    MashaAllah tabarak Allah

  32. Sama Tanveer

    Isna Pujiastuti

    • Isna Pujiastuti

      Sama Tanveer but what video that they talking about?

      • Sama Tanveer

        Dont know haha

  33. Amna Ali

    Haniyah Ali

  34. Amna Ali

    Sumra Ali

  35. Amna Ali

    Amena N Ali

  36. Farhan Khan

    Junaid Ahmed

    • Junaid Ahmed

      Farhan Khan dont get any ideas Mr.Pres

  37. Surayya Yasmeen

    Following for links as links not working right now

  38. Bebi Ritchie

    Good to see you guys Yasmeen and Asim . Congratulations !!!

  39. Zamina Karim

    Assalaamu’Alaikum Yasmeen
    Good to see you my dear looking so lovely with your husband n speaking so confidently. The two of you r a great example for younger people n even older wishing you n yours everlasting love n happiness

  40. Ameer Jan

    جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎ جزاك اللهُ‎

  41. Sobia Almas

    Hibah Siddiq
    Minahil Malik

  42. Shakes Doll

    MAA Shaa Allah. The best way to start a marriage, Alghandulilaah

  43. Uzma Anwar

    Haleh sister do you also do match making of different countries and cultures

  44. Zavini Dilhan

    Congratulations to you both

  45. Hafsat Musa Anas

    Congratulations yasmeen and asim

  46. Nadia Rahim

    Congratulations dear Yasmeen

  47. Nergz Baiz

    Nice couple Masha Allah

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