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The #1 Thing That Could Be Ruining Your Marriage

by | Oct 5, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 34 comments

The #1 Thing That Could Be Ruining Your Marriage & How To Fix It.

By Haleh Banani, M.A.

Haleh Banani holds a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology. A faith-based counselor, life coach, and mental health professional who has served the community since 1998 by saving hundreds of marriages and helping thousands of people around the world overcome their challenges and become the most amazing version of themselves.
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34 Comments

  1. Natasha Mahmud

    Offcourse I have caused a lot of people a lot of pain. Not because I wanted to..I was protecting myself.

  2. Natasha Mahmud

    I actually can not believe that the other person will care for me enough to feel hurt.

  3. Natasha Mahmud

    I am not even sure if you value me enough to hear what I feel? !…I am always in fight mode and I handel people that way..with distance and agression. Whoever makes me feel better somehow I stick around.

  4. Firdous Ali

    Very true . Some people don’t admit. Became a proud.

  5. Emma Howard

    how o communicate vwhen spouse yells instead of talk8iing

  6. Amiena Ajam

    True… If your response is a positive one, the spouse should respond the same… What if it doesn’t work out that way? What if the spouse responds defensively as if you, the person who are trying to see the silver lining in the issue are perceived as being condescending?

  7. Afsa Sham

    It’s so true men are so humble and friendly outside bt when it comes to spouse they have to be rude and proudy

  8. Anila Hyder

    Jazak Allah

  9. Hilmiya Almawali

    Thank you very Inspiring and inspiring

  10. Hilmiya Almawali

    I used to be like that but have changed my attitude completely towards my spouse and children and my siblings and friends because whatever I said my ideas will come out the same and correct but it was creating a lot of I’ll feelings so I stopped and listening to the other’s opinions even it out comes negative
    But it brings a lot of peace and respectability in the family and we’re all happy
    Alhamdullilah

  11. Saj Irshad

    <3 <3 <3

  12. Suj Khayum

    JazakAllah khairan. Great reminder! Time to reflect. May Allah cleanse our hearts from this disease

  13. Zarghuna Khan

    Inshallah: I do seriously

  14. Amy Sahar Shishefar

    but number 1 rule of all it takes 2 to mend or want to do it

  15. Dinah Ahmed

    You hit the nail, that’s spot on Haleh. Thank

  16. Alisha Ghafari

    So true Subhan’Allah , seen so many friends going through this astaghfirrullah

  17. Fathima Zahan

    Alhamdulillah, very beneficial as usual

  18. Mir Asghar Ali Efrah

    If you keep approaching first all the time it start hurting your ego. It makes you look weak.

  19. Shaz Irshad

    When there is marital separation notice given can I live with him?? Can I go live with him even though he doesn’t want to be with me in one room?

  20. Noor Moussawi

    How can we access you and ask you questions after taking one of your courses?

  21. Shaz Irshad

    How can I work on a marriage when spouse is stern on separation? How can I change his perspective towards the marriage?

  22. Adila Hajaat

    Thanks sister Hala

  23. Shaz Irshad

    These rules apply to both spouse, correct?

  24. Fathima Zahan

    isthighfar and constant making dhikr of Allah cleanses the heart

  25. Veronica Hazel Argueta

    how can we come to when we recognize and admit we were wrong, but your spouse keeps going on and on about how you were wrong even after you admit to it?

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