What to do when your children are lying?

by | Dec 8, 2020 | Islamic Psychology and Spirituality | 73 comments

What to do when your children are lying?

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73 Comments

  1. Suse Jirun

    My lies about prayer and hitting each other…

  2. Tamania Omer

    Assalamoalaikum…when I feel they have lied ,I try to sit with them and ask them why did they feel the need to do it.i tell them not to be afraid of admitting anything to me good or bad.i will appreciate their honesty even if they have done something really wrong.it has worked alhamdulillah and they come to me and my husband and tell us everything

  3. Ameera Pader

    It’s about homework.

  4. Zoobia Zaheer

    My 8 year old boy usually lie to play games and for homework

  5. Imen Trabelsi

    Alhamdulelah that’s what I usually do with my children and it does work

  6. Suzan Koujan

    Love it jazake Allah khayran

  7. Alena Parbin

    MA very beautifully explained.

  8. Aml Waes

    للاسف لا اعرف اللغة الانكليزي

  9. Sheeba Wanee

    Allah huma Aameen

  10. Habiba Hashimi

    Thanks for the wonderful videos dear sister

  11. Sayyora Tuychiyeva

    Assalamu aleykum Sister thanks for your help

  12. Mira Khattab

    Very valuable knowledge…Thank you!

  13. Ayesha Malika

    Assalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi wabarakaatuhu from usa

  14. Gamida Soeker

    Homework!Prayer when it comes to the next waqht coming in ….

  15. Munawer Khan

    Subahaan’Allah

  16. Adz Mahomed

    Sister if they keep insisting that they not lying

    • Amina DK

      Maybe reminding them that Allah swt is watching and that we will all be accountable before him one day.

  17. Adz Mahomed

    14 year old lying bout salaah9 year old lying all the time and then he insists that’s he not lying

  18. Adz Mahomed

    I can’t stand it always lying

  19. Saniya Abbasi

    This is really practical and helpful advice! JazakallahKhair!

  20. Neeza Hasan

    Assalamu alikumo all my dear sister

  21. Yousra Said

    Sabahat Zeb Riz KhanSara Al

  22. Aziza Salim

    جزاكي الله خيرا

  23. Aziza Salim

    My daughter loves chocolate and sometimes I see she is trying to hide a chocolate in her hand so I don’t see her . I talked with her but Im still worried

  24. Zubeida Ottley

    Wahleikum Salaam Wahrematullahi Wabrakatuh Sister Helah. Nice to have you back and listening to you.

  25. Reshma Begum

    Thank you so much for your wisdom

  26. Salwa Abdoo Razzak

    Jazkul Allah khyr this is valuable information MashaAllah

  27. Khatereh Safi

    JAZK allah khair sister

  28. Khatereh Safi

    My son lies about his homework that he did it but actually he didn’t and he is 16 years old

  29. Zamina Karim

    Masha’Allah , such a great blessing the way you addressed this situation. Indeed we need to cut the kids some slack but to still keep our eyes on them n encourage them rather than putting them down

  30. Nushrat Tina

    JAK sister . And you are looking so beautiful MA.

  31. Li Nda

    السلام عليكم

  32. Raihana Amir

    Oh man, I screwed up!

  33. Sippu Momin

    Video games

  34. Fauzia Alam

    They lie, when they are scared.

  35. Farah Maqsood

    My kid makes up stories of just different experiences in front of her friends and sometimes simple lies about wudhu etc.

    • Haleh Banani

      Farah Maqsood That’s very common. Never call them out in front of their friends. Talk to them privately.

  36. Hud Hud

    Prayer and homework

  37. Saleeha Zareen

    I have a 4 year old, it’s hard to come up with “punishments”. What are some limits/punishments do you think I can set when it comes to 4 or a 2 year old. Jzk.

  38. Nazli Khan

    Ws when you say child what age?

  39. Umme Salma

    Upcoming test and homework

  40. Youmna Sahoo

    جزاك الله خيرا

  41. Saleha Khan

    children lie because of fear or anything they love but they think parent wont let them have or due to judgement

    • Haleh Banani

      Saleha Khan The fear of punishment or disappointment are major reasons kids lie.

    • Haleh Banani

      Munawara Hussen Esmael You’re welcome!

  42. Zahra Yez

    Thank you

  43. Farzana Hasan

    I agree with you.

  44. Munawara Hussen Esmael

    Maa Shaa Allah Tabarakallah this is the exact topic that concerning me

    • Haleh Banani

      Munawara Hussen Esmael Alhamdulillah that it was beneficial.

  45. Fatima Zahraah Abduraouf

    Assalámu ‘Alaikum Warahmatullaahi Wabarakaatuhu Wamahfirratuhu

  46. Farzana Hasan

    I have already prayed!!

  47. Zarmeen Khan

    Eating chocolates and then lying about it.

  48. Robina Kouser

    aslamo alakum it’s about prayer with in minutes she said she done with my pray

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